Random Conversation 2.0

Then brush my teeth with champagne...

 

People tend to get highly emotional around this time of the year.
I got contacted by two men of my past this week.
One was a pleasant surprise (even though I know that nothing ever will come out of it), the other....not so pleasant and not that surprising.

Has any of you recently heard from people they didn't speak to in ages?
I think it's funny that people seem to totally forget about you and then reach out to you around Christmas.

Maybe some people wait for a reason to contact someone.
Life is too short to wait for a reason or an occasion or the "right moment".
If you want to say something - say it.
If you want something to happen - make it happen.
If you want to do something - go for it!

 

I've been reaching out more. Just because more of my friends are posting on social media at this time, and I'm all, "oops! I didn't say hi in awhile!", or because I'd message them to get their address for Christmas cards.

and I agree with the last bit of your post! To me there's nothing worse than leaving things unsaid, "unhappened" or not done... then you're wasting life wondering what if?

 

Life is too short...

I try never to leave things undone, if I can help it. I know I'm guilty of not always saying how I feel... I don't know whether or not to be surprised if I hear from my ex since we broke up earlier at the end of the summer. I think maybe he stopped trying to reach out to me. I tried to sever all my ties with him because my relationship with him wasn't very healthy. I've moved on and I know it's for the best.

 

I hear your words Arch. I believe now that I will marry again as it is something I want.

Thank you for the wonderful compliment. :freehug:

 

I just discovered that I had a severe case of pneumonia for the past few days and then, I managed to curb it drastically to almost being at 100% optimum efficiency.

 

...so you got laid? lmao

Glad you're feeling better.

 

No. Getting laid is impossible. Getting better with shooting massive....brownie smoothies...helped a bit.

 

I agree with you Archman, but would modify that (for myself) to being in the right marraige. With the person who is right. I connected at the soul level when i was very young, and he was classified as MIA in Vietnam. Three years later I married someone else after being courted for seven months. I didn't necessarily want to be married, but did want to have children. At that time women in the military were not allowed to be single with dependents. I didn't want to give up my career, so I married. I don't look back, as a rule, and don't name off the things I would change because I wouldn't want to tamper with what I have now. I have four healthy adult children, and eleven heartbeats (grandchildren).
I've had offers, and offers, and other offers, and my answer has been the same, "if I'm not feeling it in the soul of me, it isn't going to happen". Being with someone you aren't feeling it for is worse than being alone.:smt069

 

So interesting to be reading this now. I am going through an agonizing situation because I need to end a relationship with a wonderful person, but I am not happy and haven't been for a long time. I am finally being true to myself which is killing me because I will make another person so unhappy. I agree, Bennett, that's it's better to be alone than with the wrong person.

 

squirrel's run fast when there is a car behind them.

 

Sons of anarchy finale was the best of the series

 

Better than the Opie episode?

 

Ya u gotta see it

It's a game changer

Then again this whole season has been wild lol

 

I love SoA. This season was one shock after another!

 

SoA rocks. simple as that

 

People, particularly conservative-minded individuals, would often throw the phrase "Politically Correct" phrase at progressive liberal minds as a means to think they are soft and silly and somehow, it's degenerating the 1st Amendment rights of others.

After looking through the whole thing, I came to the conclusion that it can easily be thrown back at those people. With their insistence on throwing out the words "my opinion" to justify their personal views on certain things, never mind the fact that scientific understanding and evolution of our understandings on gender, sexuality, race, and ethnic identities, they still feign ignorance to reinforce whatever views they hold.

So next time there's a person citing something as wrong because their beliefs tell them so, let them know that you'd be politically correct for simply agreeing with it. Instead, just call them a fucking idiot because reason and knowledge trumps BS convictions based on old practices.

Signed,

Your Friendly Neighborhood Asshole

 

How the hell does a grown man look at a 10 year old girl and openly say " this girl sure gon get a big booty like her mama and aunties" smh

 

I always recommend it to people who tell me that they haven't seen it but the extreme violence often puts people off, especially that season finale a few weeks ago. Yikes.

 

it s violent, that s true. but there s lot of violence out in the media s ... just turn the news on.