......I notice the provocateurs of both of these postings were both light skinned......they have cast the first stone.....At this rate, we are heading towards our first forum race war........The question is----Should we fight over the women,...or we should fight over who has the higher status in society...... The winner will have to get all,.... there is apparently not enough to go around...........
I am not interested in any man light or dark that refers to himself or other men of his own race as niggers or niggas...how ever you slice it and dice it...it is just wrong!
....Your words SHOULD be taken as a sobering eye-opener......but you are talking to generation who have constructed their own set of provisions and double standards.....
This thread is dumb, its like asking if I prefer blondes or brunettes. I LOVE THEM ALL. WHITEGIRLING IT SINCE 95 AND WON'T EVER STOP
Lol, I love that term :smt081 Honestly, we all have preferences...no harm in talking about them. I'm a sucker for dark bm...it's a known fact. You may prefer blonds to brunettes, no biggy. We can love them all and still have our favorites
If Im completely honest most of the men have known have been darker but there are so many more important things.
You summed it up perfectly. I like medium to dark brown, and yes, they will definitely catch my eye first. But it's not just a visual preference, I am watching and listening, so it really is about the whole package.
I absolutely agree! Visual appeal will certainly draw me in, but that alone will never sustain my interest. The date I had on Monday is a great example...the man is absolutely gorgeous but the conversation was mundane. I need more than just a pretty face Like I've said before, a man who makes me think and pushes me intellectually will always get further with me than Mr. Muscles.
