Online Dating Experiment

its funny how true this is, when i was on match.com i would set my nationality to other and would pull more ww then putting in african american.

i still feel a lot of you dudes on this site still have a complex about ww not wanting you.

for the record though, you have to pay to play, to this day i have met higher quality women on the paid sites versus the free sites, maybe its just me though.

 

What do you mean by complex?

 

by complex i mean the thought that they cant get a ww or that a ww wont be interested in them. women are women and for the most part they are attracted to men. to dive deeper, ww on online dating sites wont be interested in them.

i aint never had a problem meeting or dating women from online dating sites.

sometimes i think the fact i live in cali and people out here dont trip as much on the whole race thing.

 

I think you nailed it on the head, you live in California. I know I wouldn't have had as much luck if I didn't live in liberal ass NY.
Also don't underestimate how beneficial passing for other is to you. You have any idea how many times I've heard people say Barak was the perfect first black president because he wasn't all.black? That shit matters don't dismiss it.

 

this is nigga mentality.

ive always thought it was funny how your "blackness" is determined by hue of your skin. growing up the high yella guy always got the last laugh as he stood over you with his fists balled up.

anyone can pass as other no matter your skin tone and that shit may matter but if it does matter to a person then why would someone associate with them unless they were blood?

 

why are you guys so shocked and dismayed that most ww prefer to date within their own?

It's obviously just easier. Doesn't mean they're bigots. Some are, but on the whole, it's probably just easier for them.

If black women were normal, it would be easier to date "within your own" too.

You gotta pay a price for your preferences. Just like if you're in japan, but you want a harley instead of a honda, you're going to have to pay more.

Comes with the territory.

 

I wish I could bump up responses on my OKcupid.. oh well..

 

Lol dude have you been on these sites? Even black women prefer wm over bm lol.

 

Indeed, even the term "interracial dating" sounds bizarre to me.

 

Meh it could be a number of things. Other boards aren't as friendly to IR dating. Trust me

 

its just as bizarre as saying Jesus is Asain.

you sir need to move to Cali, you would have some fun in the bay area.

 

Bingo. Just one of the many reasons I love living in SoCal

 

God, you're like the third person to tell me this haha.

The worst term I heard for IR is miscegenation.

 

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eh. good for black women.

But that doesn't mean it isn't normal for most people to prefer to date within their own.

Just saying there's a price to pay for your preference for white chicks. It's naturally not as broad a market for nonwhite dudes

 

Currently on the UK POF and I have to be straight up I'm getting no play on there at all. I'm a member of their forum too and tons of white guys are moaning they aren't getting anywhere either. Don't know whether to feel worse or better haha.

 

Finding pretty women to date is another one percenter situation. You pretty much have to be elite to catch the attention of any woman.

 

More so for black guys than any other group by far. Rarely have I seen a woman claim to exclude a whole group like they do black men.

 

Indians and Asians have it worse.

 

Not according to the research and from what I've seen woman don't say they won't date Indians and Asians the way the say they won't date blacks
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/

 

Think about how much ridicule Asian and Indian men get compared to Black men? They don't have a 'black man virility' myth on their side which breeds curiosity.

I know about those stats though. I've heard non-white men say that online dating isn't good for them based on that.