Most black men date FAT/UGLY white women

agreed!

the point i was making is how women are far more critical of the fat versus overweight thing. on top of that, as a man i can look at a women and know she is slender and attractive but it never fails... women always think they are fat/overweight.

BMI has its pros and cons but from what ive seen you are simply lovely.

 

I do believe there's a difference between FAT and PHAT or THICK. Mostly has to do with how a person carries themselves and takes care of themselves.

A woman like me has been thick my whole life. I did use to pick myself apart a lot, thinking my arms or thighs were fat, butt was too big. Why couldn't i be this cute, petite little perfect package i so admired looking at other women. I realized a long time ago, i cannot be like anyone else, that i am who i am and should be thankful for my own traits that God blessed me with. I should embrace the curves. If there was something wrong with the way i saw myself, i needed to suck it up and do something about it. i learned i am far too critical sometimes. Confidence is always key, and health is important.

As for the stereotype; you see people all the time who make for a strange pairing. Who cares? As long as they are happy, who the hell am i to judge them?

Everyone has an opinion. Let the haters hate...be happy!

 

Come a little closer so I can give you a big hug :freehug:

 

With all due respect, it appears, at times, you have low self-respect. It appears you are very confident and comfortable with your sexuality; yet, you are uncomfortable with your physical appearance. I will agree that most men who are physically fit want a woman who is physically fit; however, there are exceptions. For example, my wife is not athletic and struggles with her weight and fitness. We do not perform physical training together, because we are at different levels of training. There is so much more to my wife, than her physical fitness! GOD forbid, if my wife were to have a serious illness or permanent injuries, where she cannot walk; have sex, or perform any physical activities, I would love her just the same and more! In addition, my wife satisfies me sexually! A woman who can cook and perform very well sexually, is a woman with whom I can easily dismiss physical 'faults'. In my years of promiscuity, I had sex with women who were attractive and physical fit; yet, I did not have a good sexual experience. I have had sex with women who were over weight; yet, I really enjoyed having sex with them. I am not stating the problem or good experience rested solely with the woman.

Finally, did your CREATOR tell you not to seek men who are physically fit? I respectfully and humbly request a reply.

Does he have a commitment to physical fitness or does the Marine Corps have a commitment to physical fitness, to which he must comply?

This is one of the reason I do not have a training partner and I do not train with the average non-athletic or non-military female or male, including my wife. Most men and women train for physical appearance and physical fitness. I train for survival, safety, and protection of my family, country, and the oppressed; therefore, my mindset and goals are different. When I was single, if a woman was attracted to me, one of the first things she do is ask to "workout together". When I explained I do not physically train with anyone, who is not a collegiate or above athlete, high level military, or a strength and conditioning professional, because of my goals and priorities, the woman's interest in me would cease. In addition, these same ladies would ask me 'fitness and health' questions, which I would reply with websites, video, and other information they would never bother to view, read, and apply. I did not and do not have time for such women.

Personally, I am not impressed, when a woman demonstrates more intensity and focus with her physical training, nutrition, and health regime, because she is in a relationship with me. In the end, our bodies will decay; therefore, be yourself.

RaiderLL,
I am not implying you are being unscrupulous or you are not being yourself.

10 NOVEMBER 1775, MY MARINE CORPS CAME ALIVE, IN TUTS TAVERN, PHILADELPHIA, PENNSYLVANIA......OORAH!

 

I honestly have no idea what the marine corps requires of him from a fitness standpoint. Whether he created his fitness regime from his own desires, or because of standards that he must adhere to for the military, I know he truly loves his workouts! The passion he has with regard to his level of physical fitness is contagious. I certainly would never ask to workout with him though, as he is definitely on another level. I'm not interested in matching his gym time...seeing his dedication just motivates me to do what I do, harder. And that's running.

I keep to my same daily run regardless of my relationship status but my motivation, 9 x out of 10, comes from the people in my everyday life (whether they be romantic interests, friends or family). These people push me to be the best I can be. I don't go harder for them, I go harder because of them, and I'm incredibly grateful for that. I'm that same motivator for other friends...and I encourage their workouts and nutritional plans. It's really not about imitating others, it's about finding the strength and motivation to take great care of ourselves because while I agree our bodies will eventually decay, I'd like to keep mine in good health and appearance while I have it

 

Keep on doing what you are doing!:freehug:

 

Personally, you could say that I'm very fit, i'm in the gym three times per week to lift, I crossfit one or two times, and round out with the cardio. I have a lot of close family and friends that serve our country in various ways and they are in shape, but a lot of them see me as inspiration. The OP earlier said that he's on a different level because he generally trains for survival purposes, but that's not the only type of motivation that can get you to a high-level. I train to be strong physically and mentally strong, to be healthy, and my missed NFL dreams lol.

When I'm in the gym, I'll will say, the females that catch my eye are usually have a semi-athletic to athletic build. That's not only because of looks she caught my eye, but what we have in common; desire, will, motivation, general diet and fitness, etc. There are always exceptions to the rule(s). I've been interested in plenty women who are not athletic and could be considered overweight it all just depends, attraction is situational in my book.

 

interesting

While reading this thread I was thinking a lot of things. As an ex athlete an a woman who gained over 100 pounds having my kids back to back then lost 100 lbs which is where I am now. I find that you guys that work out all the time can sometimes be intimidating in a gym but also motivating at the same time.
I used to go to a gym and finally had this gorgeous chocolate man talk with me after being there for 4 months and nobody talking to me. He was nice but in such good shape as my husband as well. I would like to go to watch him workout and this inspired me to work harder. Eventually we became very good friends and he helped me out in the gym etc.
I am just saying it is normally hard for about 70 percent of the population to go to a gym and not feel intimidated by someone!!! Maybe if you are all in such good shape just remember everyone has to start somewhere and that brief conversation that you may initiate with someone who is not on your level may inspire them too....

 

Military folk train to be prepared for anything and everything. The warrior mentality. Just follow your own fitness goals. All that matters is how you feel while working out and post-workout.

 

They also train so they don't fail their fit reps. I could always tell when those were coming up because the ex would suddenly start running and and doing crunches/push ups after months of doing nothing.

 

Military Fitness Reports will definitely get them to the gym.

 

I've heard this before and I thought it was hilarious because my white friends lusted over every white girl I talked to.

 

working out

I think everyone should get off their phones, the internet, turn the TV off, and get their ass to the gym more. Americans are way too fat and have way too many excuses for it when there is only 1, lazy. You can run, walk, ride a bike, take the stairs, etc but you got to stop super sizing.

 

Careful this kind of talk will get you suspended

 

And make the fruits and vegetables 60%, not 25%, of your meal.

 

Stop spreading helpful healthy tips dammit it won't be tolerated

 

You're right, TDK. I'm sorry. Now pass the fried porkchops! :smt043

 

sike

 

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She's having a hell of a lot of fun. I envy her.