FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

LMFAO!!

 

And your line starts where exactly?

 

this is raider's line...lippy doesn't have a line...those days are over:smt009

 

whoa whoa whoa, you have a significant other?

 

Lippy
Pix
Please
Thnx!

 

Most definitely.

:smt081

No need for crowd control, it's really not that serious lol. I've made it 32 years being able to successfully manage my own men, so I'm set! Thanks though

 

no pix and no contact information but I understand that if you are curious about me the face book group or skype group would be more than happy to tell you my name and where to find a picture of me...so much for privacy

a game of this or that does not mean that I am meeting anyone!

I have tried really hard to keep a low profile here but evidently that is impossible...I wish you all the best!

 

he is an ex for a reason and sleeping with your ex is nothing my brain can comprehend.


I FEEL THE SAME WAY.

 

:-(

 

I don't know. I don't know. I feel that the fwb situation(which had happened only once in my life and hasn't happened again since)is just as much about intimacy as is the act of sex. I had always felt that there is caring as well as sharing. I mean kissing, oral sex, and heavy petting are very intimate activities to engage in, whether it is a fwb, one night stand or a serious relationship.

 

In my days of orgies, prostitutes, and friend with benefits, I thought I was having a lot of fun. Now that I am married, I regret every sexual experience I had before I became married. My wife was a virgin, when I married her. My pre-marital sexual experiences prohibited my ability to connect with my wife, in so many ways, for a very long time. This has been my experience. I am not suggesting what actions others should or should not take.

 

how old was your wife when you got married?
I don't know if marriage is legitimately in my future at all, so at this point I'm not hung up on "waiting", but I'm at the cusp of starring in my own Steve Carell movie.. :smt093

 

Call me whatever, but I would so much rather have a little idea about what is about to happen. No one wants to be in pain during their honeymoon. Not on purpose anyway. Your honeymoon is supposed to be about you both having an enjoyable time. If she is a complete virgin then she may act like she is having fun but I guarantee she is not!

 

I apologize for taking so long to reply. My wife was twenty-eight years old, when we got married.

 

Fantasyfangrl,
First, I would call you and will call you a beautiful woman and human being that deserves respect. Second, I am baffled your statement "Call me whatever". Third, there are measures women can take, to prepare for sex for the first time. Fourth, my purpose for marrying my wife is too fall in love, AFTER GETTING MARRIED, and sex is a way making us fall in love with each other. Fifth, it has been my that a first time sexual experience is never as satisfying, as subsequent sexual experiences with the same partner. Sixth, the most memorable thing I remember about my wedding night was, I watched Barney(Yes, the purple dinosaur Barney), because I promised my nephew I would watch Barney! Me and my nephew would watch Barney, together; therefore, I could not break tradition. Also, I remember asking myself "What the hell did I just do?", while looking at my new bride who is asking herself the same question.

 

If I'm smashing a chick for some time and she don't catch feelings, personally I'd feel insulted and disrespected. That mean you ain't shit.

 

I'm not judging you and your wife. You need to do what's right for you but I am a little confused. I would think your wedding night would be a special and sacred night especially if she was a virgin. Not sure it sounds healthy that you spent it watching Barney with your nephew. I hope you have fallen in love and are enjoying a healthy relationship.

 

I actually think it's pretty sweet that he watched an episode of Barney to keep from breaking a special tradition. He and his bride have a lifetime of sex together so whether they made love for the first time immediately following the reception, or a few hours later...what's the difference? I know SO many couples who were so exhausted after their wedding, they didn't even have sex that night (2 of which were virgins)! If you've been married, you know all the planning that goes into it, and when it's finally over and you're back at the hotel after hours and hours of dancing/celebrating...sex often times isn't the first thing on your mind when your head hits that pillow! You've got your entire lives together at that point (in a perfect world lol).

 

I did not watch Barney with my nephew. I watched Barney in the honeymoon suite, without my nephew. I was able to watch Barney, because we got married on Friday night. I was not insensitive to my wife, especially on THAT night. My wife told me to watch Barney, because she thought my nephew was so cute to ask me to watch Barney.

Whether or not you are judging my wife and I will never be an issue with me, because if you are judging my wife and I, and I have a problem with your judgement, it is my problem and always will be my problem. No one can upset me, without my permission. In addition, you would be very correct in admonishing me, for being so insensitive, if I did watch Barney with my nephew on my wedding night.:freehug:

I adore my wife immensely! We have had our challenges and struggles; yet, we have persevered. My wife is my best friend! I am waiting for her to come to her senses and divorce me, because I do not deserve such a wonderful woman and I have not always honored her as a gift and blessing. It also helps that she has a big gluteus maximus, which further helps me to realize I am blessed!!!!

 

The fact that you consider your wife to be your best friend says it all. Obviously, you are doing something right, and I wish you both all the best.