Na, I provide an amazing personality which compliments not only a persons attitude but also elevates their emotional outlook on life. The last company I worked for, everyone in the building called me Mr. Amazing.
(shaking my head) As Satchmo said when someone asked about Jazz, “If you have to ask what jazz is, you'll never know.” I am an atypical man: a gentleman.
I'm shaking my head along with you. e·rot·ic i?rätik/Submit adjective 1. of, relating to, or tending to arouse sexual desire or excitement. Perhaps these women sense right off the bat that you are socially awkward... Danger: It's another wolf in sheep's clothing.
For me that would be too direct too soon. After having conversation for a little bit I get a clearer idea of what I may want from a guy or not. Voicing interest verbally works best for me,and if at that early point I have a positive opinion of the guy,will accept a date, and then see from there.
Aha! And that lends credence to my last post in the online dating thread. If we can know within 30 seconds of meeting a man in person, how much more important is it to make a great first impression online? I'm quoting this in that thread. Lol. I would modify this to say we think we know....sometimes, after we get to know him a little bit we change our mind. Or someone we'd dismiss within those 30 seconds, after spending more time with him, we may change our mind. It is our prerogative you know. To change our mind.
Maybe we know whether we find him attractive that quickly,but physical attraction alone is not enough for each woman to sleep with a man. Some of us want to connect to a guy through conversation before taking such a step. I definitely don't know whether or not I'd sleep with a guy in half a minute. Also if a woman would prefer to get into a relationship rather than have something purely sexual,she may want to take her time to get to know him better,and figure out what he's all about,whether there is a basic compatibility,etc.
online first impressions are more difficult than in person. well i bet you know within 30 seconds if you wont sleep with him... :smt106:smt106
Within 30 seconds I may have a first impression (which may or not be corrected later) and an idea of whether or not I like his looks. I ve been told that at first I come off a bit cold or mean,but usually that changes when or if the ice breaks. So I prefer to give a guy some time,too,because the first impression may not be right. Both don't necessarily indicate whether or not there will be sex one day in the future. All depends on the idea I get of him through talking and learning what he wants from me.
*must spread rep first* those statements holds so true. Online dating to me is safer, but less genuine. I deleted my online profile after less than 24 hrs of opening it. Guess it's just not for me. I definitely support these statements tho...you may be quick to dismiss someone initially, but if they are determined to win your heart, you will start to learn more about them given some time. And yes, sometimes you know right away if you wanna have sex w/ someone. Laws of attraction. And YES. We have the prerogative to change our minds...we all do.
