How to make my erotic interest clear(er)?

Hey folks:
Recently, I met a young woman at my local Alliance Française, in Minneapolis. We had a pleasant conversation, during which she distinguished herself by charming me.

She wasn't wearing a ring on the marriage finger, so I figured I'd go for it. I have heard that you need to approach white women differently, but games don't interest me. When I asked how to contact her, she wrote down her email address and phone number. These were positive signs.

A few days later, I left her a voice mail saying that I'd like to take her out to a film, using those traditional words. She called me back a few days ago, and suggested that we meet for coffee without mentioning the film. I agreed.

Today we met. About 20-minutes into a pleasant conversation, she mentioned her boyfriend in France, non-chalantly. She has been seeing him for two years. When I probed her a little bit about that, she said that she has a bad radar in terms of understanding when a man is asking her out.

This isn't the first time that I've faced a woman with a faulty radar.

I was confident that I had met one of the few tall, thin, pretty somewhat lady-like women who speaks French. And then she shows me a page from the book of crazy.

I want to make it clear to the woman, no matter her color or background, that a romantic and erotic partner interests me, not merely a woman friend.

Has someone already created a thread for this? If so, then please provide me with the link.

 

I prefer the direct approach. At some point in the initial conversation, tell her you would like to get to know her and simply ask her if she is seeing anyone. That lets her know you are interested in her romantically and hopefully she will be honest with her answer.

 

Cosign this!! Direct and to the point so we don't have to worry about what it is you want and/or if we did something to disinterest you.

 

Of course, ChesBay and FantasyGirl, you're right. It's so elementary that I feel silly.

The kink in that is that Twin Citians are thrown by directness. They erect mental walls, not knowing how to respond to that level of self-confidence and maturity.

Nonetheless, the next time that I meet someone who's special enough to charm me, I'll have to act on your advice.

 

just tell her you believe she would have an amazing time if you were both in your birthday suits together and that you should find out if your beliefs are true. :smt102

contrary to what most think, women would rather you tell them what your interested in and are more than willing to go along with what you suggest.

 

in the twin cities the Minnesota nice girls might deck him:smt043

 

When speaking to her, brush past her with a hard on. Her reaction to this is a sure fire way to know if she is down to fuck or not.

 

Do you do it so she knows you did it on purpose? Or do you casually give her a feel of it?:smt083

 

Oy.

 

Hey folks, sometimes can be timid around women. I'm a gentleman who's not interested in "hit it and quit it" action. I just figured that telling a woman that "I'd like to learn about you" or "get to know you better" was direct enough. After that I ask how I can contact her, hoping she doesn't refer me to Facebook.

 

Pretend that I tripped into her or act like their isn't enough room without touching when maneuvering thru. My favorite is when they are at their desk and I act like I want to show them something on the computer and just lay my meat on the desk when leaning over.

 

The fuck does erotic interest mean then?

 

Yeah, when I said "direct approach", I didn't mean quite as direct as North's approach.

 

Can you demonstrate that meat-on-the-desk thing for us? Like a YT vid clip? :smt003

 

naaaa, I'm a firm believer you can ask/say/tell a women anything and you will get what you want if you ask/say/tell her the right way.

its all in your approach, for starters make her laugh then hand her your phone and tell her to put her number in it. simple!

 

I see what you did there.YT video coming right up when I have alone time.

 

:drinkers:

 

It's a little presumptuous, but I actually like this!

 

WDF!

Se he basically should be like:

Put My Number In Ya Phone, And When You Get Out The Club Girl Call Me Up
Put My Number In Ya Phone, Just Forget About Ya Man Baby Call My Up
Put My Number In Ya Phone, In Ya Phone, In Ya Phone, In Ya Phone
You Fine, You Cute,
You Should Go Home With Me
Baby Girl Stop Playin' & Put My Number In Ya Phone
artyman:

 

naaa, hes got to first have good conversation and her laughing... then simply hand her his phone and with a smile and some humor say "you should put your number in my phone".

dont bother calling right then and there to verify its right, just know you received