Love Virgin

:smt023:heart::heart:

 

I love a man who can show his love every day! I think the time aspect is more showing than anything else. If he has free time, and it's spent with her...that's where his heart is. Sometimes it's easier to look at what we don't have, instead of appreciating all that we DO have. Now, even with as much love as I'm shown, if at the end of the day my guy can't tell me "I love you babe"...we'll have a problem lol. I'm all about showing and telling those I love how I feel.

 

I am a love virgin because I was never given the opportunity to physically love a woman(i,e lovemaking). If a woman is not interested in me as a boyfriend she could be affectionate towards, I cannot force them or blame them. That is their choice. The nice guy always finishes last. And if she is afraid of losing an opportunity for excitement, she will brush that nice guy aside. This has happened to me very often and that is how I resided in the Friend Zone.

 

:shock: Gorath, I hope you are not saying you are physically a virgin, if you are I strongly suggest you change that status immediately. You can and should get laid, think about the love part later.

 

I speak the truth. No bullshit. I had had sex before, but it was not as satisfying as I would've hoped for. Now, at this stage in my life, I have to be careful. So, I have become picky. I'm not going to have sex with just any woman. It must be mutual. Other than that, it is meaningless.

 

Lol love, yall ain't missing out on nothing.

 

Attention:
The preceding document is a precious lesson in the emotional trade-off and should be committed in memory for all who can read.....

 

Totally

I think a lot of women (myself included) do this. I was talking to a male work colleague the other day about the exact same thing, his wife always looking at what he's 'not' doing!

It's a hard one, because if we need reassurance through talking, talking, talking, we're always going to be disappointed.

 

So what do you think is the solution?

 

This wont be popular with some women but it needs saying. Alot of women simply don't realise when they have a good thing. I'm the type of guy that is willing to talk but I got SICK of constantly having to reassure my ex. Of course at times love needs to be spoken but speak about it too much and it makes it harder to be felt and expressed.

Being told I love you is wonderful don't get me wrong but holding the woman you love in bed and looking into her eyes without saying a word but giving her smiles, gestures and touches is another thing all together.

 

talk is cheap...I prefer a "show me" man:smt115

 

This.

Talk doesn't cook rice. ~Chinese Proverb