Fortysomething...and then some

I'm 42 and happy to be in my forties (apart from when I feel really old lol). When I was in my 30's, I really started panicking as 40 drew nearer, the idea of hitting that number really freaked me out, but once I was actually there I totally got over it.
My sister told me that would happen, and I didn't really believe her, but turned out she was right!

 

This makes me feel better! I just turned 32 and I'm already stressing about 40! I stressed about 30 too though, and I handled it ok (sort of lol). A guy told me last week that I look 24-25...I'm telling ya, even though I didn't believe him for a second, I could've jumped his bones right there! :smt045

 

hahaha yeah, we try pretend we don't want those compliments, but secretly we love 'em
my last boyfriend told me I had the body of a 30 year old, and even though I was like ''haha yeah RIGHT!!'' inside I was like ''yaaaay!!!''
but yeah, once you get there you realise you simply don't give a crap anymore. I actually totally remodelled myself in time for my fortieth birthday, because I'd had enough, and it was enough of a panic for me to realise that I didn't want to be horribly unfit as well as being in my forties! So I'm fitter and healthier now than I have ever been in my life, apart from being an actual old lady

 

While I am going to take your word for this, it would be fair to ask: are you willing to demonstrate by pictorial testimony that life really begins at forty?

 

lol I'm afraid I am unable to grant you that evidence, but damn yeah, it really is true what they say, particularly about women as they get older!

 

I have to say my 30s were the best!! I really felt like a grown up and in control of my life. As far as 40s go, age really is just a number. I love to have fun and do so most of the time. It's all in your attitude (of course you need to be in reasonably good health).
My age has not discouraged younger men at all, as a matter of fact, when I mention my age, they wonder why I care!! Cool!!

 

That is cool!

 

I'm fast approaching 40.
Can I sob now?

If 40 is the new 30, is 30 the new 20?

 

No, you can't afford to lose that moisture for your skin, granny.

 

i will be 42 in December. Kids are almost all grown. Grandkids are getting bigger. trying to get the finances in shape but its an uphill battle. really trying to stay married. too much of her time invested in me. found gray hairs in places i really dont want them. but im good. tired but good.

 

always shocks me when I hear of someone my age with grandkids when my kids are still in primary school

 

Right you are, gramps.

 

grandsons

tarsh i never thought i would be grand p either. my sons had other ideas. my boys are 23 20 and 18. my daughter is 16. i wasnt ready to be a grandfather barely had dad covered. but im doing the best i can at it.

 

I have children the same ages. Not a grandfather yet and in no hurry to be one. I know what you mean though, sometimes we have to take life as it comes.

 

Not forty but getting close in a few years and looking quite forward to it.

I feel athletic and am dedicated to remaining fit. I've had to adjust my diet to the fact that my metabolism won't allow for me to eat like a twenty year old anymore.

I no longer solicit opinions on my level of attractiveness, but I'm grateful for whatever life-affirming qualities my parents have passed down.

I also feel fortunate in the open potential I have to grow intellectually and maintain my closest friendships.

 

That positive disposition alone should deliver you safely into the golden years......
I also take it that unlike so many of the folks, you will not succumb to the destructive wiles of a steady soul food diet.......

 

Going boldly into your forties with optimism is the only way to go. Also technology has made it easier to remain intellectually stimulated and in contact with lifelong friends than our parents could have ever imagined.

 

I am forty-nine. Three years ago, I had some extreme challenges, with my health, finances, and career, now my life is great and getting better Also, I am in school, to eventually get two PHD's in physics and human physiology.

I am much healthier, than at any other time in my life. Because I am in the science, medical, and sports performance fields, I am able to apply all that I am learning. Also, I am blessed with the gift and opportunity to improve the lives of other human beings.

Spiritually, I am studying the Bible, Talmud, Greek Philosophy, and Roman Philosophy, in original languages. This has increased my ability love and forgive, without conditions. Also, I am less selfish and much more serving to my wife and others.

With respect to my finances, I used to be very materialistic. Now, I am very frugal, without being stingy. Being frugal has saved me a lot of money.

In the past, I permitted race, academic status, and career to define me. Now, I do not attach myself to anything, because when I am six feet under, my race, academic status, and career will have no significance. Detachment means more virility and less stress, which is always good!!!

 

lippy turned 49 this june and I am ready to face 50 head on...career is going great...I have a retirement plan in the works...my son just graduated high school and is going to college...I love my house and gardens and spend quite a bit of time nurturing them both...we just got a new puppy and he loves going on adventures around the neighborhood...someone else mentioned frugal and I have found that a prada handbag doesn't make me happier...ive graduated to thrift store shopping and love the hunt of a good bargain...ive dated quite a bit over the last few years but never got serious about anyone...timing just wasn't right and I was completely focused on being the best mom I could be...I always said that I will get married when im 50...strangely enough the last few months has been refreshing hearing from a past love...things are falling into place and I couldn't be happier...planting seeds really works in all areas of life...I feel very blessed...