Ladies and Gentlemen, what would you like the opposite sex understand about you?

Hold on since when do you have standards. Damn ive been duped lol.

 

Lol new phone. So would you date this friend?

 

No because he's the best friend of the guy I actually like-like lol.and he has a girlfriend. If he didn't have a girlfriend and things weren't odd with the best friend, then yeah.

 

what the fuck?
:smt043

 

It's kind of a playful little in joke between some of us here that got started with another poster who no longer post here a few years ago.

 

Imagine Tarshi saying that in her Australian accent

 

I have. She's said the little in joke line enough time on various occasions. Same with Tamstrong but with a Southern accent when she's had occasion to say it.

 

Pure fucking comedy.

 

And me, with my drunken rough Russian accent. Lol

 

Exactly I hear a drunken Swedish accent for you.....

 

You seem to have a type and haven't deviated. But you know your tastes better than anyone else.

 

I sound absolutely ridiculous

 

Someone on this forum, after watching a video of me talking, said I sounded like a 'rough Russian'. I looked a bit. I think is sound more like the Sveeedish Chef

 

Lol and you're a beautiful sounding drunken Russian Swedish pirate

Bork bork bork

 

Bork! Lol

 

Someone has not heard your voice well Geek. Especially since you don't sound deep like a Russian.

 

I would like that men would understand that they cannot generalize women...just because one met a woman with this or that character, doesn't mean I am or another woman is the same. I also don't do it with people I get to know.I observe them, look at their body language, listen to their voice , their temperament- check, what I like and what I don't like. Later I decide to Keep contact or to ignore this person

The other point is, when I see immediatly lust in a mans eyes- I am pissed..I am not your damn pin-up girl

 

Well stay pissed because I'm not going to stop lusting after you. :smt007

 

lol Northy, the point is that I know you..it's a game between us! But I assume you understand what I mean. It's the same feeling as if a bouncer gay guy devours you with his eyes - just creepy

 

The first part of your post I completely agree with. The second part I understand your frustration but still consider this.

As much as we as humans may claim to be advanced in many ways we still are primitive in the ways that matter the most. Attraction to others is hardwired in most us and it ensures the survival of the species. I'm a very respectful guy when it comes to all aspects of life and women are no different. I see women that I find attractive and yes I do instantly lust after them, I'm single so why not. But its the way that a man expresses that lust that separates males from men. I can lust after a woman, which means yes there is some objectification going on, but then what is desire without an object of desire. I'll still want to talk to her too and want to get to know her on an intellectual level.

Lust is good but if it comes without respect or consideration for others its a disaster.