can you forgive and when was the last time you did it?

I sort of tossed it to since everyone has dna than it is likely to occur to everyone. I guess you could say the same about Alzheimer. It is just for me. I've never had anyone get cancer even though they pushed passed 80. Where as Alzheimer and self inflicted diseases have been taking some of the older folks in my family out left and right.

 

forgiveness is an essential part of life allowing yourself to release the burden of hurt...sometimes we think people do things to hurt us when in reality in their sick twisted minds they are really only hurting themselves...what if by hurting someone...you caused that person to detach from you...on purpose...what i'm saying is that sometimes we own too much and it may not even be about us...

 

I think you can Never totally forget what People did to you-that is what is called Life experience. But that i have to convince someone Else that i am a trust worthy Person,also gets on my nerves and i am Not willing to Prove iit again and again. Not just One friendship broke because of this issue

 

Lippy, you're right. So much of what moves people is their own bs, issues, self-esteem, unfulfilled desires/needs, etc.

Christine, trying to convince someone to trust you is a time-consuming experience. For people like that I would just try to keep the relationship good, but at arm's length so that issues like that don't take center stage.

 

Its True what you say. I just find it sad, you know we all have our baggage, our Bad experiences and our faults. And remember, Many times it is a fault of both, if you feel disappointed. But Hey, find a way to handle it

 

Pshaw

Keep talk in' gorgeous.
Ill be longer and borerer (wow! Phone did not correct that) for you any day.

*kissessess

 

Truth, people have to learn how to be survivors.

 

Aww! Babycakes! I lub u!:smt058