Guys: If a girl were to slip you her number...

Hey everyone - got into a discussion on another post about slipping my number to the guy I have a thing for. And I wanted to know, what would your impression be if a lady were to do this to you? It is quite forward and goes against the notion that a guy should be the one to do the chasing, but would you consider it a turn off/on? I'm going to do it regardless, but I would really love to hear some guys' opinions!

 

I don't chase women, fuck that notion. Anyway it's cool if she slips me her number, I love a upfront don't beat around the bush woman and it lets me know that she is serious about her interest in me.

 

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Well let's be fair if it's coming from you most guys would jump at the chance but it wouldn't be the same for all women. Reactions may vary especially if dude already has someone.

 

That happened to me.

She worked the counter at McDonald's and then when I got my food, I was looking for something in my pocket and I felt a brisk wind, and when I turned around, I was like "The fuck?" Then I saw the girl slipped her number into my Big Mac.

What did I do with it? I kept it and answered.

But really, it's a nice gesture if a girl slips her number. It's cute too and it would be a bit of a shock since I rarely get that kind of attention.

 

its a turn on, especially if she asks for my phone to put it in her self. who uses paper these days?

 

I think it's funny.

 

I would not read too much into it. I knew a girl years ago who gave me a look like she wanted to confide in me about stuff. However, it lead to a good friendship. A woman who does that now would either be really attracted to that guy and wants to get to know him in a covert way, or she wants to ditch her current boyfriend.

 

I would be flattered and honored. I admire a move from a woman who knows what she wants and able to break the ice. I hope the reaction from brotherman would not be a negative one.

 

I would take it as she likes me and I should call her if I like her.

 

all these especially what ach stated. men go through this all the time. no big deal. slip him thenumber and he will call. you are giving him the feeling of flattery and if he is a man he will call.

 

If he does not then you tried and it is his loss. Don't give up.

 

Many women still believe men should approach them and the only time it has happened to me is when a woman is drunk.

and, unfortunately the ones I have encounterer either didn't remember or had a bf.

But to answer the thread I think its great when women take the initiative. I tell female friends all the time why complain about the one that got away, or that gorgeous guy, when you never took a shot.

Men no matter how seasoned don't like being rejected, we move on, but the overall experience will make you gun shy especially if she was rude.

 

Gracious wants to be discrete about it as she sees him at her place of work. No time to ask for his phone and she doesn't want her co-workers to know either.... This is why she needs to slip him her number.

 

All too true. A lot of guys will become gun shy after being rejected in a rude or insulting manner. It has happened to me a few times.

 

Cute photo, Curleyblonde.

 

Thank you Gorath.

 

Honestly its a great way of letting a guy know your interested. I honestly say go for it. Also shows your mature, and not playing games like a lot of girls do. If a guy is to immature to handle a women mature enough to express her interest in a reasonable manner that is his loss. Though expect the guy to be surprised.

 

From a guy's perspective I think it would be great. From a woman's perspective, I'd give myself a little more cover. Offer a business card instead. He'll call if he's interested.

 

Lol people still giving out business cards to attract people these days? Thought that died in 2002.