"You Can Do Better! She's Too Big For You!"

Anyone who's been in love or been in a relationship can tell you of their adventures involving they and their significant other. Often times, it involves staring or back-handed comments that result in hindsight insults and overall perception that the other person, whom is considered the "ideal" type can "do better" by being with somebody that is physically the same and in shape.

Such is the case of this young woman, Gloria Shura Nava, a native of California and as you can see from her YouTube channel, she enjoys talking about make-up, making people laugh, and she's quite plump and sweet all at the same time.

View her channel here: Gloria Shura Nava's YouTube Channel

Now, let's observe her boyfriend below: Hails from Glasgow, Scotland, 5'10, blue eyes, dimples, and a smile that could kill any woman that stares directly into them.

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And yet...when they are together, they often get stares and she's criticized for being too big and more so, he should leave her since "he can do better." It's perfectly true that we're a pretty superficial collective and we allow the standard of beauty to prevent us from really appreciating the person standing before you. So, her weight serves as an issue, and yet it doesn't bother her much. She's conscious of her weight, yet she's not bothered by the comments because she knows she looks fabulous and the only person that matters to her is the one whom is in love with her.

I suppose I should ask this one question: Has anyone experienced anything of this nature? I'm sure given the mission of the site, albeit not quite the same as weight, would you say that it tells a lot more about the people criticizing the relationship or is there a grain of truth?

 

People should mind their own business. It's their choice if the want to be together. If he loves her, then he obviously enjoys being with her. So how can one do better in life than finding real love (one that isn't based on looks alone)?
Fuck them. If they are happy, that's what counts.

 

That's my prognosis actually. But, you have people that have empty lives and want to take it out on those that are happy together.

 

good thread

 

I'm not so sure about that.
It's a true life story, but knowing this forum, there is gonna be blood.
I don't want another "fat women versus skinny women" thread.

 

true. I will sit down. LOL

oh wait. I will say this....its unfortunate that a forum that embraces diversity in one area is nonaccepting in another.

ok. now I sit down

 

What you eat don't make me shit and who you fuck don't make me cum- J.Cole

But lets be fair about one thing when the situation is reversed (man vs woman sorry people) we don't seem to have as much of a problem. Not necessarily looks but if a high born woman dates a common man eyebrows are raised and there isn't much "mind your own business" comments in their defense. In fact dude looks like a mooching bum or less of a man because of it. Just something to ponder.

 

Heard this quite a few times in my life.

 

This all damn day.

I'm with Unique...people can mind their own business. People should get more comfortable with the phrase "fuck em". If that couple is happy and some douche bags wants to comment that dude can "do better"...fuck em. It's that simple. I've never cared what people thought of my relationships, but some lonely people can't help but insert their noses where they don't belong. I'd be real quick to tell them to back it up.

 

right there

 

You summed it up quite well.

Not everyone finds the current beauty ideal appealing.
Plus personality does play a major role as well. It's all about finding happiness and an all over balance.

 

I knew two couples who were exactly like this couple. The man was skinny(or fit) and his wife was bigger than he is. Both couples looked happy and secure within themselves. On the celebrity front, actor Pierce Brosnan's second wife(his first wife Cassandra was in For Your Eyes Only before she died of cancer) has gained a lot of weight and he is still with her. Look at live scenes of military family reunions on the news and you will see them, too. Anyone who says, "He/she could do better," is not living in the real world. It is true that we do live in a superficial society. But, that should not suggest that we segregate fat from fit, attractive from average or plain(ugly comes from within)and so on. Nobody knows what couples of either combination have. It is not for anyone to know unless they tell you.

 

:smt023

 

The underlined cracked me up.

As for the bold part..
IMO, it's not that they are lonely.
They are deficient. I can't understand the need to voice your disproval.
You can have it all night long. It's your right to make judgements and be obnoxiously anal in your own life.
Where that ends is when you OPEN your mouth and start expressing it to other people.
Especially if it doesn't actually affect you in any way personally.

Sometimes I wish it was legal to punch motherfuckers for stupidity.

 

well Im gonn a say this....here is someone that can get it from me.


also we do have a thread for the love for thick girls and big girls.

however some people dont like it.....

I like slim to thick women myself

 

You are not lying there man. The first time I saw her, this Canadian vixen compelled me to spank her hard.

 

For me it find it hard sometimes that most WM who date BW who are from average to fine while brothers sometimes go to the bottom of the barrel when they date a WW. I don't get jealous when a brother dates a fine WW since I'm pleased to see a person who has good taste. However,it is his choice not mine or anyone else's.

 

Like Too $hort said, sex with big girls is all work, no play.

 

Whatever makes him happy, a lot of people care about things that will never affect them in any way.