If someone made moves on your partner, would you step in?

Lol I'm a patient dude, I don't get mad over silly shit or find the need to escalate minor situations.

I'm definitely down for that!

 

He should be man enough to handle it. Or she.

I'm still stuck on her hair... Snooki puff.

The spouse should only get involved if shit is not handled, but she should have taken that up with him so he could take action. Now she made him look like chump.

Although I don't know the details.

 

yeah, I would feel strange to protect my man, officially and in public like this woman did.. makes him look like an idiot:grin:

 

LOL, if I had a dollar, I swear. I guess men read the same book. Mine have also added "listen, I KNOW MEN, ok??"

Ha, true for some. But some men LOVE seeing women fight over him. I steer real clear of those types.

What if she does nothing. You cool?

 

This is my approach. Big ups to GL. Now,,, sometimes we have a little fun with it. I'll help the dude (or lady). That's if they're aggressive. I'd flirt beside them lol. Comment about her softness, tits, tongue, ect. Then move in and caress that. It's all in fun. At the end of the day it's all about trust and having a understanding. (Someone mentioned the trust factor). Who knows, one day we might decide to take him or her home. Just saying.

 

LOL @ your last line!! ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ wow

I agree with you @ the 'publicly' part.

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Question: What if your man wants absolutely NOTHING to do with the woman or women hitting on him?
If he doesn't want to even respond to them/ contact them back/speak to them etc... there are men like that - who pay thirsty women NO mind.

So do you really want him to contact the person who wants him, which might set something off?

Therefore I guess, that would ONLY come to a head if his pursuer doesn't take his ignoring as a loud hint, and keeps at him. Who better then to get the message across of "Look, leave me the fuck alone" ...or "Look, leave my man the fuck alone"..?

Hmmm..

 

you know, situations are different..but I 've seen men talking silent and confident to tell a woman not to contact him anymore and I've never felt the need to involve. The same with me, if a man doesn't want to understand, I am able to make him believe that I don't want to have contact..if it goes further.. we have the possibility of legal actions ( if it becomesbothersome) we pay taxes,right?

 

yeah...i agree with all.no doubt it got way out of hand.

 

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With all the stuff I've been through lately and seen, I'm considering the advantages of an open relationship. As much as I like the idea of settling down with a family, I've read so many sociological studies that showed how flawed the institution of marriage is.

However, open relationship or not, if he wanted someone to stop contacting him and they weren't listening to just him, and he ASKED me to get involved, I would.
(Like when I asked the guy I like to actually play "boyfriend" for me, when we went to the store, the creepy store guy kept trying to kiss me, so by him seeing me get all kissy with the "boyfriend", ideally he'd back off )

I'd trust the partner to make the right decisions. I'd trust that our communication is open enough that he knows he could come to me with these concerns and I'd actually hear him out instead of getting mad.

 

If we are talking blatant rudeness in my face, then yeah I'm telling her to "fuck off slut"
I've had an incident where a woman has tried to manhandle him and he's grabbed my arm for support "if it hadn't been happening to us I would have laughed":smt106 some bitches are desperately persistent. :smt087

 

well I would expect my man to tell them to back off himself, but if it was a situation that warranted it, oh my GOD I would be all up in their faces!! haha.
I certainly wouldn't stay quiet, I would be very vocal to say the least!

 

I sit back and let her handle it first. Then, if dude doesn't back off, then I step in.

You learn a lot about your woman (or man) by the way she handles situations like that.