oh grow up:Study: Men don't grow up until age 43

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Jun 11, 2013.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Study: Men don't grow up until age 43

    Average age is 11 years later than most women, new research says

    A new study says men don't "grow up" until age 43 -- a full 11 years after women do.

    And both men and women agree that's the case, according to the research commissioned by Nickelodeon UK to mark the launch of its new show "Wendell & Vinnie."

    Study participants of both sexes said they believe women reach maturity much earlier than men -- age 32 to be exact.

    Women were also twice as likely to feel like they were the "grown up" in their current relationship, and a quarter of women surveyed claimed they made all the important decisions in the relationship, The Daily Record reported.

    Thirty percent of women said they had ended a relationship over their male partner's immaturity.

    And a whopping 46 percent of women reported relationships in which they had to mother their male partner a bit too much, The Telegraph reported.

    But immaturity isn't all bad.

    Four in 10 people surveyed said it can keep things fresh and ensure the relationship stays fun.

    TOP 30 MALE MATURITY FAILINGS (according to women in the study):

    1.Finding their own farts and burps hilarious

    2.Eating fast food at 2 a.m.

    3.Playing video games

    4.Driving too fast or 'racing' another car at the lights or on the highway

    5.Laughing a bit at rude words

    6.Driving with loud music

    7.Playing practical jokes

    8.Trying to beat children at games and sport

    9.Staying silent during an argument

    10.Not being able to cook simple meals

    11.Re-telling the same silly jokes and stories when with the boys

    12.Don't like talking about themselves/ having proper conversations

    13.Hating books/reading because of short attention span/they're boring

    14.Doing crazy dance moves

    15.Mom still doing their washing

    16.Having their mom still make them breakfast/any meal

    17.Wearing sneakers to night clubs

    18.Owning a skateboard or BMX

    19.Not eating vegetables

    20.Changing jobs regularly

    21.Getting too excited over bachelor parties

    22.Sometimes trying to do wheelies/stunts on their bike

    23.Driving a modified car or one with a loud exhaust

    24.Showing off about how girls are attracted to them

    25.Wearing pajamas, specifically cartoon pajamas

    26.Using shady pickup lines

    27.Showing off about protein shakes/weight-lifting/how much they 'lift'

    28.Littering

    29.Wearing saggy-crotched jeans

    30.Having a cartoon bedspread



    http://www.wfmz.com/news/study-men-dont-grow-up-until-age-43/-/121458/2051

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    gentlemen...its time for you to grow up. wait a minute.....not until you hit 43. so have fun. LOL

    do you agree...men arent mature until their 40's
     
  2. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    I'm silly AND you could call me immature because I still find farts to be the funniest shit on the planet! :rock:
     
  3. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    LOL, when I read this the other day, I chuckled. I remember thinking that some women over 32 also do some of the things listed too. Also, many men I know from young know how to cook and some actually enjoy it. Surveys are so slanted.
     
  4. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    do yo think in general men dont fully mature until their 40's
     
  5. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    Who does? Most of us are kids at heart. 40's is the new 30's for everyone these days, anyway.
     
  6. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Fair and unbiased I'm shocked lol.

    Real talk I bet a woman wrote this. What exactly is mature anyway?
     
  7. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    true dat.


    lets change the topic a bit. do you think men gain a certain level of surety in themselves at age 40 vesus their 20's . meaning confidence and manly qualities that women want in a dude
    lol. it was a study. LOL
     
  8. Beasty

    Beasty Well-Known Member

    Don't think I will ever completely quit playing video games during the winter. It is a healthy pass time, it saves money, and movies are just as fake. Nothing wrong with a little imagination. I even thought about becoming a game designer.
     
  9. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

  10. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Guess I get a pass bc I'm not 43. Lol. Real talk, if 16 ,22, & 23 makes me immature oh well. Survey blows.
     
  11. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

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  12. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    i think a certan level of maturity and wisedom for men comes faster if they are around a father or fatherlike models
     
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  13. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    the list of acts that are considered immature if full of BS. for example...it states beating kids at games is a sign of immaturity. really ...????? no its not.
     
  14. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    [​IMG] You are a bloody mess!, Goodlove!
     
  15. SexyBaltimorean

    SexyBaltimorean New Member

    yeah, they are......beyond slanted!!
     
  16. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    Very few of these characteristics mean 'immaturity' per se, as much as they mean someone who enjoys certain activities that art attributed to young people. The rest of them sound more like an attempt to categorize anything a guy does that a woman doesn't like as 'immature'.

    The ones that most fit the definition to me include:

    4.Driving too fast or 'racing' another car at the lights or on the highway

    8.Trying to beat children at games and sport

    10.Not being able to cook simple meals

    13.Hating books/reading because of short attention span/they're boring

    15.Mom still doing their washing

    16.Having their mom still make them breakfast/any meal
     
  17. Danke

    Danke Member

    The saying goes that women are more mature than men. I believe this is because girls generally date guys that are older than they are. The saying should state that girls are more mature than guys their own age. Those girls simply have more offers for social interactions. They get the invites. They've had much more practice and experience in social situations than most guys their own age. This grants them access to environments and situations (basically social worlds) that most young guys don't get to experience until years later (11 years later according to this study). If a young boy grew up in the presence of women being exposed to social settings with girls his own age (while also having strong male mentorship), he would be just as “mature” as that girl.

    They mature faster because they are put into “real life” sooner. Real life in this sense being adult situations.

    Just my opinion.
     
  18. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    The list is a load of crock
     
  19. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    ???????? My mom makes me breakfast whenever I want. I think I'm rather mature. Lol. I guess not.
     
  20. Stizzy

    Stizzy Well-Known Member

    Yes indeed
     

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