Are Men Appreciated? Ladies Your Thoughts.

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by The Dark King, Jun 2, 2013.

  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

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  2. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    pay for her date.
    say nice things to her
    hold the door for her
    pull out her chair.
    You tell me who is not appreciated. lol


    how do you sit 16 mins through this garbage.
    so many things so so so wrong. It is a man's world for a reason. I can't think of a single society that has protected women and has not been a complete and total monster of a nation.

    Someone please pick one for me.
     
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  3. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Pick any country from the Netherlands, Canada, France, I'm sure there are more i just don't know them off the top of my head right now.
    Its not a man's world, its a rich white man's world get it right homie
     
  4. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    All of those countries have committed vicious acts at one time or another. :smt018
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    But currently don't and those vicious acts you speak of were exacted against men more so than women.
     
  6. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    no no I firmly remember when france was enslaving black people they weren't going well these are black women so we aren't go to make them manual labor.

    Those who forget history are doomed to .....
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    No but when they systematically killed and persecuted the poor it was more likely for men to be the ones used as examples. Not saying women don't suffer but when you think of war and conflict men are always thrown into it whether they want to be or not. Women don't get drafted nor judged for not choosing to throw their lives away for arbitrary conflicts.
    And to be fair its not like Africa as whole is innocent of exacting slavery so focusing on one particular nation during a particular time is insincere because all humans have shown when given the opportunity they will oppress the weakest amongst us. I've yet to see a country who that doesn't advantage of child labor.
     
  8. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    Women aren't drafted because we perceive them as weak. And we all know it.
    It is like sending in a female basketball player to play against kobe. lol


    Also is that last comment for you. I believe I was pointing to every nation. You were the one who for some odd reason decided to go to Europe. lol You would have probably had a better case with Jamaica. lol
     
  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    My point with Europe was even though at some point things were bad at least now things are really good and they do have a nation that cares about women and isn't a cluster fuck.
    Woman aren't drafted because we think they're weak but its more about the idea that the female body can push life into this world and men can't. So because of that men become less valuable since we don't have wombs. People with the authority to start wars don't give a fuck who die for their cause just as long as they win.
     
  10. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    no no, I'm sorry but it is because we see it that way. We are physically superior to them in many cases. If you ask people who they think is better equipped for a war, it will be likely a man. Not only this but we have in the past discriminated against women because they are pregnant.

    any how what I really want to know is if you sat through that 16 mins of bull....
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I found it interesting and very enlightening. You should check it out fam
     
  12. Nikkers

    Nikkers Well-Known Member

    As the automated captioning has me pretty much rolling around laughing, forgive me if I repeat her, or if my post has nothing to do with the video :p.

    I think that men are under-appreciated in general. As someone that's had plenty of bad experiences with men though, it does help me to appreciate others.

    My friend tried to set me up with a guy. Texted the guy for awhile, even sent him a full body picture (it was the only one i had with the mutual friend..). Not ONCE did he comment on my curves, or the things he'd like to do to me. He's never mentioned me physically at all, just as a person overall, which I thanked him for, after pointing out how objectified I felt by others.

    Another friend really got me to come out of my shell in the past year, and I know he didn't realize exactly how much he's helped me (especially to help myself...). He's built me up, after my ex tore me down, and I wanted to show appreciation for that, point out all the little things he's done. Just the time out of his day, the small things that showed he cared in one way or another. I thanked him for all of that, but he told me I don't have to thank him, I have his back and he has mine.

    Those examples just show... I'm used to DC guys honking their horns at me, groping me on trains, etc. I'm used to (or 'was' used to) a boyfriend treating me like shit. It's sad it happens this way, but I think by being used to this and dealing with "these" guys, it makes me appreciate a man that does right by his woman.
     
  13. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    repped
     
  14. qtinsouthfl

    qtinsouthfl New Member

    I will keep it simple. YES, I appreciate a man who knows how to take care of himself and his lady.
     
  15. Bug

    Bug Well-Known Member

    Are men appreciated? For what? would be my question.

    It's an unfair world and still a mans world no matter what others say.

    For instance me and my Partner work around the same amount of hours a week right now his is about 7 hours more a week, never more than that (if im going to be completely honest) but when I'm not working I do all the cooking (sometimes 3 different dinners), cleaning, childcare, packed lunches do our paperwork/books (self employed) we just had his 2 girls from a previous relationship to stay for the half term week, who looks after them ME!, slotting them into my already hectic day. Near on every night last week I wasn't finshed sorting the house out till around 2am and then I had trouble getting to sleep.
    Nothing is truly shared, if a child is sick who gets called out of work 9/10 times, who has to beg for time off to attend to children related issues, who has suffered the consequences of that. In the past I certainly have, I got so far up but couldn't get any higher (Believe me when I say i never untilised my right to time off to care for a child) but a few times I was called on my day off and asked to come in, which I was unable to do.

    This isn't just me, this is women all around me, it's going on everyday around us all:eek:
    Secret differences of paygrades between women and men!!! another thing that gets on my tits.

    I can see why some women are throwing men away like disposable razors, it's harsh but mehhh.....


    I want to see some appreciation for women, some true deep appreciation for women and I don't want to start licking the Fanny of some bird in Birkenstocks to get it.
    Catch my drift lol
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    First off who says women aren't appreciated? How do you want be appreciated? A ticker tape parade? If you want to argue men get paid more then it makes sense that you so more household chores since he contributes more financially. And this is far from being a man's world maybe its a rich white mans world but for most men.... never mind I already see how this will go. Sorry you feel under appreciated talk it out with you r partner.
     
  17. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    I think the question is are men appreciated and not do women not know how to pick men?



    Where's my rim shot?
     
  18. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    haha so true!

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  19. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    :smt038
     
  20. Bug

    Bug Well-Known Member

    It should be based on hours worked not how much you rake in for those hours.

    You're not married DK and neither have you ever been, also you have no children so how would you understand the gender inequality going on in family households accross the world. Women pull their weight more than men and we have to appreciate a man more just because he's remembered women are human beings to.

    Women have been oppressed since time began, with many things it's still the same today.

    My point is Men want appreciation/praise just for being men, an accident of birth???
    I can see why alot of woman aren't jumping into the boat, just pushing it away from the harbour once they seen the cargo :D

    I was not moaning about my Partner, I was highlighting problems which real women face everyday, mens expectation of a woman has increased not decreased, now you have to work and do everything that the stay at home housewife does.
     

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