When did you first realize or accept you were attracted to WW/BM?

First attraction to a white female was at a party given by my best friend at his house. He had a lot of white friends especially white females because he was athlete in football at the time. Her name was Margaret. She saw I was scared to death to open my mouth at the time because it was the first time I had that much contact with whites being from a segregated school and community. She was so nice and friendly. She would force me open up. When she held my hand I was amazed how soft her hands were. She loved black music and was very informed on current events. She told me to "never let anyone make you think less of yourself". I will always remember her as a true friend. Tried several years ago to locate her. Found out she married and moved. I wish her well.

 

Though I'm attracted to all females regardless of race, I realized I loved ww in 4th grade when I had a major crush on a teachers assistant/aide that was in my class.

 

Foreever!

As far back as I can remember really. I can remember back when I was 5 or 6 looking at Black men and smiling ... my Mother would say either "Stop staring" or "What's that smile about?".

I never acted on it till Middle School when I started dating a boy. He came up to me one day and (cliche) asked if he could carry my books home. Of course I let him and we were together through High School. College took us different ways. Sometimes I wonder where he is today.

As I got older I found them more attractive and I enjoyed being around them. Not only athletic but actually witty and intelligent. If a man can make me laugh well it's a good start.

For me, Black men :freehug: have always been in my eyes and my heart. :smt049

 

I had a similar experience but I was in first grade lol. What can I say, Ms. Shelley was pretty attractive way before I even knew what attractiveness was. Years later after I'd graduated high school she just happened to come into the store where I worked and not only that, she recognized me immediately and even gave me a hug and asked me how I was! And yes, she was still hot.

 

I had an experience like that too, except this teacher's aide was pacific islander and damn I had the hots for her. I was the only colored kid in that class and I guess she felt bad because she gave me all the attention in the world, she was like my only friend in pre-school. I'm surprised I don't have yellow fever.

 

lol

 

I had my first sexual encounter with a white girl in college, but I didn't realize I was attracted to white girls until I moved to L.A. These white girls out here are so fine that they could make any bean pie eating, pro-black, kufi wearing brother holla at 'em. LOL

 

funny you say this...

When I was in the navy, I worked with a guy fitting this description. Hated white people and told us so on a daily basis. Dude was so annoying...

Til' the day he tried to holla at me.

Lol...yeah. We gave him hell for weeks. You know I had to clown him.

 

LOL That shows you how full of shit these dudes are. Excuse my language, but aint no brotha gonna turn down no pussy. I don't care what color it is. LOL

 

Cali girls are a breed of their own!! Just sayin :smt061

I'm glad people don't know what we have out here, they'd be visiting and never leaving. This state's crowded enough as it is lol.

 

Oh no, dudes around the nation knows what's up with the Cali girls

 

:smt043:smt043:smt043

 

LOL, talking about they don't eat no pork/swine then they get a taste of that white meat and they are hooked.

 

For Me

For me, I was always curious, but it wasn't until I was 46, and that was it! And I went hard. Long long story.

 

Done so quite a few times

















End up regretting it later during a dry season :smt012

 

I have time. Go on.

 

The thread title makes it sound like it's some sort of coming out of the closet thing.