Why NBA center Jason Collins is coming out now

Yes and yes.

 

Well, he wasted 7 years of this woman's life.



http://www.tmz.com/2013/04/30/jason-collins-carolyn-moos-fiancee-gay/


The woman who was once engaged to NBA star Jason Collins tells TMZ, she had NO CLUE he was gay at the time of their relationship ... in fact, she only found out last weekend ... and she was floored.

Carolyn Moos (who played a few seasons in the WNBA) dated Collins for seven years and was engaged to him until they broke up in 2009 ... after Collins pulled the plug on their wedding.

Carolyn tells TMZ, she never once suspected he was gay, so the news is shocking. She says Collins eventually revealed everything last weekend -- just days before his big announcement -- and said that his homosexuality was the real reason he ended things with her.

At the time of their breakup, Carolyn says Jason gave a bunch of BS reasons for calling it quits ... and she could never understand what went wrong, until now.

Carolyn -- who's back on the hunt for Mr. Right -- tells us, "It's very emotional for me as a woman to have invested 8 years in my dream to have a husband, soul mate, and best friend in him. So this is all hard to understand."

Read more: http://www.tmz.com/2013/04/30/jason-collins-carolyn-moos-fiancee-gay/#ixzz2RybNcwVe

 

that mofo so gay....even a ww couldnt get him str8....lol. now thats gay

 

Downlow ass mothafuckas

 

I have nothing against gay people in general... I do have something against in the closet gay people.

If you're gay just say it, don't waste peoples time with it. I just don't get it... if you're getting hard off of penis on penis action then what's there to hide?

 

is this real life, you can't believe they can you? If you can well then I feel do you

 

It's the 21st century, if this was another time, maybe it'd be a little bit more acceptable for them to play for both teams. Things are different (if only slightly)... That "I'm engaged to a beautiful successful women but I secretly like dick" crap has got to go.

 

What?

this is the thing tho

That's that bullshit

A lot of people say that they were born gay, so why would they waste someone's time like that

 

If you ever sit down with someone who has come out of the closet for most it takes decades, think about it if it were that easy they wouldn't downlow, fake for years some are heavily involved with church or a mosque, having the mother of their kids hate them, the reasons to keep silent are as real as ever.
High school classmate of mine woman had kids got married lives in fear tried for years to ignore the feelings the whole 9, she finally came clean about 30, was living with a woman a fight happened and in the fracas her partner had fell stumbled and friend freaked, just say that woman laid dead over a week before she finally called the po po scared to death everyone finding out

 

issue is they should have never been in the closet to begin with. Being gay is not something you have to consider, if you have feelings for someone of the same gender... you're gay.

Why get with someone you don't truly love, it's the same as cheating, no matter how you slice it... it's cheating.

 

after a few drinks at our 20 yr reunion we talked
she struggled for a week coming out explaining to everybody she loved, it scared her they much to walk over a corpse for a week, coming out of the closet was easier for her than explaining the accident, live in a po dunk southern town people talk called her a murderer she said none of that hurt as much as hurting her parents and her kids

 

I'm waiting for the media to turn this into another "all black men are on the downlow" fest.

I think it's worth pointing out that white men are some of the most bisexual mofos out there... From sucking black dick in cuckhold action to down-low stuff like Mcgreevy, john travolta, malcolm forbes and the 2 or 3 celebrity wm outed each year that we all just forget about because.... well.. they're white! Even in porn, you see these guys ready to tongue down a woman right after she's throated another guy's dick.

Collins, however, only reinforces the notion that all black men are craving man-ass and dick. Then when that dentist secretly injects you with hiv, you'll say "where did this shit come from?" but everyone else will "know"...

Not to mention that white women, black women, hispanic women, asian women and all other kinds of women will be quicker to write you off, because we all know all black men are cheaters (while all other men are faithful) and the black guy will likely be cheating on you with another man, or maybe with a chick who has slept with one of the millions of "downlow" brothas...

In the meanwhile Obama calls this guy to congratulate him on his coming out. What the fuck is that? why is that worthy of a call from the president?

It's good that people are more accepting of gays these days. But as a black man, I'm won't join the celebration just yet. There's still an immense stigma attached to simply being a black man (something we can't hide in the closet), and where I'm from, there's still an immense stigma among women to being seen out on the town with a black man, just as in yesteryear there was a stigma to being spotted with a gay person.

 

Change we can believe in


Y'all voted for that mothafucka

 

Lol twice , get ready for Hillary in 16

 

Maybe a friendly reminder to not go the Sinclair route??



:smt057

 

AGREED!

Poor Chris, he gets no break even when ANOTHER man comes out.

 

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That's so sad.

I traveled around the world with a gay man on several occasions...just me and him...and we had discussions. In the beginning he was in the closet. I used to hint to him to just come clean. He finally did after a while. He came out to me while we were visiting Australia, as we ate McDonalds at 2am parked in my mom's car. I kind of treasure that moment, tbh. He felt so relaxed to finally just say it. I told him I already knew, no biggie. He did tell me in Hawaii however that if he had the choice, he'd never have chosen to be gay. The mental stress was too much, he said he always wished he was normal like every other guy. I really felt for him.
But he's happy now, in a co-cohabiting LTR with a hunky man. :smt023

 

I also don't have anything against gay people in general. I don't think they need to "come out of the closet." I used to think that there needed to be this emergence "out of the closet," skipping out in a rainbow shirt, swichin hips and proclaiming louddly with the lisp voice, but why? Hetro's don't do this, I don't walk around with a blue shirt yelling how straigh I am. I think that's part of the problem no, they are to much of target, and a lot of times that aid in the process of being a target.

I know the LGBT community doesn't have all the same rights, but maybe it wouldn't be a big deal if people didn't make it such a big deal, "coming out the closet," a lot of flamboyant talk and dress, over the top, and distracting from what they are really trying to accomplish.

 

it's easyfor you to say, you aren't affected either way.