Why is he lieing to me?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by qtinsouthfl, Apr 16, 2013.

  1. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Ugh, I hate when that happens. Timing is everything....
     
  2. qtinsouthfl

    qtinsouthfl New Member

    Thank you all for your advise/support. I did have a conversation with him, and he was extremely defensive..There is a saying from William Shakespeare "Me thinks thou dost protest too much." In other words, when someone insists so strongly about something not being true, people begin to suspect maybe it is true.

    In any case, I am hurt. I lost sleep last night over this. I do love him. But I don't need this drama. I need an ego boost right now. Any men interested in dating me or getting to know me? ;)
     
  3. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Get your profile back up on that dating site, girl. Even if your heart isn't in it right now, just getting some attention will help you move past this. I don't envy you this. Stuff like this just plain down hurts. Hugs to you. :freehug:
     
  4. qtinsouthfl

    qtinsouthfl New Member

    Thank you! :)
     
  5. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Y'all were never officially in a relationship were y'all?
     
  6. qtinsouthfl

    qtinsouthfl New Member

    Not "officially." Apparently he was playing me. He just wanted to fuck. But he shouldn't have said or acted like he loved me.
     
  7. Unique4ever

    Unique4ever Well-Known Member

    Being active on a dating site after telling you he loves you? :smt011
    I know the truth hurts, but this guy is not worth your time.
    You deserve and will find someone better!
     
  8. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

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  9. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    Qt, William Shakespeare also wrote these quotes as they may apply to your boyfriend; "I to my business and you to yours. For every man has business, such as it is." - Hamlet
    "I'll have her. But I'll not keep her long." - Richard lll

    Don't be a doormat. I understand and appreciate your feelings for him. But, if a man is unable to give his girlfriend a straight answer, he is either very scared, or lying. Here is another quote. But it is not from Shakespeare.
    "If the stomach speaks, it forget the brain. If the brain speaks, it forgets the heart. If the heart speaks, it forgets everything."
    Please. Don't be a doormat.
     
  10. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    Shakespeare was the business!

    Love the final annon quote, too. How true.
     
  11. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    That quote came from actor Rex Ingram, a noted black actor from the classic film, The Thief Of Bagdad. Ingram played the most memorable characters in the film. He played a Djin(or Genie) who is released by Sabu.
     
  12. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    I just have to tell you that your knack for quoting movies is crazy cool. It feels like you either quote or reference a movie in almost every post and its awesome!

    That's all :)
     
  13. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    My life is not like the movies. The movies were a doorway to other worlds that opened up to me when I was little. I had learned a lot from them. But they did not define me, although they are a part of me. But movies are just one thing. I have many other interests like music and writing. I see too many things out there that remind me of something I saw in a movie, or television,or heard in music, or read in books. In all these events, I see where a thought from either or all these sources, would apply.
     
  14. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Yeah I just reread your post and totally bypassed the "seeing a man for 6 months", you already knew what the deal was. Oh well you don't even love the guy, its just lust.... you'll get over it quickly when you sip that brand new kool aid of the month.
     
  15. qtinsouthfl

    qtinsouthfl New Member

    Oh HELL NO!!! I am NOT a doormat!!!
     
  16. Gorath

    Gorath Well-Known Member

    Don't be. You are of value to this world. If a man does not recognize that, then he is blind and a fool.
     
  17. qtinsouthfl

    qtinsouthfl New Member

    Thank you!!:smt055
     
  18. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Smooth
     
  19. mama

    mama Well-Known Member

    I see you both live in Florida..... ;)
     
  20. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    and i live in ur dreams
     

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