Complimenting Women

Why? Just curious...

 

Ha! I wanna work w you!

I was thinking the same thing...

Starting to see this now...

I work w far too many people like this...but I don't chill...have toooi much damn work....that they aren't helping with...

I feel that!

 

Well, if you look up and see that the moon is blue...your first thought is usually "hey, the moon is blue, that's rare". So when I see someone that looks better than usual, my first thought usually compels me to tell them so and I rarely feel the compunction not to. I've never had a problem and the compliment is usually graciously accepted. Of course the compliment is based on my knowledge of how they usually look and that requires time and a level of rapport that one gains from a good working relationship. If you are new on the job, that kind of exchange is not even warranted.

If a person has tried to improve their looks, lose weight or generally looks better one day (or as general improvement), they have usually made the effort to do so. A compliment from someone can make their day--and everyone wants to fell better about themselves. I'm not the kind of person who throws out compliments for the sake of it, but I will tell a female co-worker I have a rapport with that they happen to look good under most circumstances. I do the same thing with men btw, but that's not really an issue.

There are various other issues that come into this, but the two that I'll bring up are age and workplace environment/culture. If you work in place where sexual harassment is constantly mentioned (you have to take a workshop or watch videos) then just don't go there, nuff said.

As a male, your age relative to the women you work with is a factor. Older men, especially those with a position, ought to shut it completely as well in most circumstances, unless they are true friends with the woman and have known her for years. If you are a young man (in his teens, early 20's) and compliment a middle aged woman that you have a rapport with based on an established working relationship, there will probably no recourse.

Never ever compliment an attractive woman in her prime fucking years, especially if she is looking exceptionally good. There's just no need to. A look will do. Whatever relationship you have with the woman, just play up on that. All the subtlety, flirtation, hints and etc that happen in the modern office will play out. She will know that you think she looks good without you saying it, which is basically what she wants anyway.

So, next time you see her looking good, just tell her that she is smart, competent, or insert whatever adjectives or jargon people use in the workplace. :razz: lol

I don't work in an office anymore, but I found that the young hotties didn't really know how to dress well anyway, especially when they try hard. The older women usually have a better presentation.

 

Fuck

 

I feel you. Most guys in an office setting try to keep things professional, so a look says MUCH more than their words anyways. The eyes always tell the truth

 

Maybe an openly gay man can get away with saying it. If Blacktiger was Gaytiger, I doubt she woulda pulled his ass to the side.

 

It falls on other women to check women when they go off the deep end like this. Unless you're ok with an absolute sterile work place no smiling no personal interaction. Purely professional so no one misunderstands anything.
Its so sad thats where we are right now.
Its tough to be a man these days, you get lumped in with all the sexual predators whether you do something or not. Smh

 

After working for an American company and experiencing how uptight the working environment can be, I'm neither shocked or surprised by her over reacting the way she did.

 

Cosign this, after a gazillion years here, I do NOT understand the work environment here in regards to sexes, its soooooo fucked up.

 

Sweden here we come? lol

 

Yep. I couldn't keep up with what we could or couldn't do. Loosen up people, you spend the majority of your life at work, make it as enjoyable as it can be

 

Most of corporate America is in need of getting laid:mrgreen:
Including me

 

Oh throw me in for that as well

 

So TDK sandwich? Actually one of my older brothers is recently unattached he's 6'7. I'll see if I can dig up a pic

 

Now you're talking. I love dark meat when it comes to turkeys

 

touche that shit actually did make me lol

 

Bahahaha!

 

Ya know...I've always loved NY...

Hook a girl up!! :smt007:smt007

 

You're 5'2 damn you women truly love height like dudes like boobs. No such thing as too tall huh lol

 

Hell no, no such thing as too tall. I wear 5-6 inch heels every day, so I'm as good as 5'8 And...I've got great boobs lol. Win Win! Like I said...hook a girl up