Spooning/Cuddling Dislikes/Likes

This!! Sounds heavenly.

 

May I ask why you made this promise to God?

 

Spooning/cuddling=loveliness.

 

all that I can comment on with all of that is the case of women not wanting someone in that kind of situation.
I personally couldn't care less about a mans financial position, as long as he isn't after mine in that way.
I'm skint myself right now so couldn't support someone in that way, but I am not after a man for financial support. At all.

 

oh its lovely. Unfortunately its a long distance relationship so I very rarely get to sleep with him (and don't sleep a wink when I do!) but I love it so much

 

LDR's suck. Just no other way to put it.

My ex bf is somewhat like you describe, physically. But he wasn't a big spooner/cuddler. I felt deprived. But when we did, it was treasured.

 

I HATE CUDDLING!!!

 

Party pooper. :smt016. You've never cuddled with me. I got skillz. :mrgreen:

 

Don't sing it, bring it!!!

 

You HATE cuddling, Smurfy, remember?

 

Mmmmmm. Quite lovely.

 

Because I feel I had missed that rite of passage when one is young. As an adult, I have to make decisions. I honestly believe that there is no one out there for me. If she existed, she would've came. I came to this decision because it takes a while for a relationship to work. I want to love and be loved fully and completely. I don't think a woman would be patient with me due to my lack of relationship experience. And I have been laughed at and humored too often. That is why I have made my promise to God. This is not a decision for everyone.

 

But nowhere in God's word do I see that you're required to make such a promise. Marriage is a gift from him, not a rite of passage. It would be best to let it up to him to decide if you are to marry. But it will be difficult for him to bless you if you are convinced that you're not worthy or that no woman will have you.

 

oh I would hate to be with someone who didn't like to cuddle. Its hard because we only get to cuddle like once a fortnight at the moment, but at least I know its coming eventually!
I'm a very tactile person, and I need to hold hands, touch, stroke, cuddle, hold etc as much as possible.

And on your note, Gorath, about you feeling that if you were to meet a woman, you would have met her already. Why is that the rule? I have been married twice, and each time it has fallen apart, but I still believe that the right person is out there for me. I have no idea yet if the man I am with is that person, we have only been together just over two months, but even if it all falls apart again, I wont give in.
Some people find their 'soul-mate' (or whatever you want to call them) at school and stay together forever, other people don't find that person til middle-age or even later.
and lets face it, some people have massively high and unattainable standards that no-one is ever going to live up to for whatever reason, self-preservation, fear of getting hurt, whatever.

 

I had missed out on that rite of passage when I was in high school. To me, that was when it counted most. I went to the junior/senior prom stag. It was a self-fulfilling prophecy. A close and healthy relationship, other than a platonic one, was something I've never had before. Because of this fact, I am at a disadvantage. It takes a while for a relationship to work. I have been alone for a long time and I have accepted it. I would want to love a woman fully and completely. I would also want to be loved fully and completely. I do not believe that such a woman is out there for me. My decision to become a permanent member of The League of Batchelors at 50, is not for everyone. That is why I made my promise to God.

 

Those eyes....mmmmm

 

This is my promise to God. I intend to keep it. Written as gospel or not.

 

Yes, we all have standards when it comes to that special person. That is because we do not settle for just anyone. I want to find someone who makes me laugh, stimulate my mind as well as my body. I have not found that woman. I probably won't find her at all. Some things have to end at sometime.

 

oh standards are fine, we do all have certain things that we really want, and things that we just aren't willing to put up with, but I mean sometimes people set these huge superhuman standards that no-one is ever going to fulfil. Not saying thats you, its just something that happens sometimes.

 

It happens all the time. It is evident in the media.