How Many Dates Before the First Sexual Encounter?

She liked your dick. Sorry, that was the core of it. No way in hell could she KNOW YOU, unless you are that shallow that she got thru the book of you in 5 pages before the check arrived.

So by your standards, she should fuck any many she likes that she JUST met. So for example 30 dates in a month, all the guys she likes, so 30 fucks? Cool? It's not telling you anything if she does, right?
This guy, I swear.

 

Men see waiting as negative, women as a positive. Men see it as withholding something, women see it as waiting to share something of value.

 

Uh, we went to highschool together. Our families know each other. Assumptions. Sheesh. We just never dated until a few years ago. This gal, I swear.

 

fixed!

 

And if a female sleeps with a guy on the first night, doesn't mean she has to with every guy she likes. How archaic and chauvinistic is that thinking. If I made the same assumptions I'd be a pig, correct? But I'll let you be right hun, I see where this is going. You're right, I'm wrong rayer:

 

Exactly.

 

Ok this thread is moving fast and Im wading through the posts. *skimming over the trashy ones" so give me a second

Lol, you know I meant sharing as sharing one's body, Mr. newly Sensitive! :smt019

 

But many men will assume that she has. And we've had discussions on here in the past where some guys admitted that very thing.

 

lol :smt106:smt106:smt106

 

Yes many, some, but not ALL. My only point from the giddy up...but I digress.

 

Yes because this scenario is normal. Either you are now embellishing to make your story sound better, or you can't see how this isn't a FIRST DATE EXAMPLE.

Hello, you've known this chick closely for years, no wonder you FINALLY fucked after all that time. :toimonster:

 

Embellished, come on ma? Really? How is it not a first date example. You've never known someone but never had romantic feelings or dated them. Or is everyone you date a complete stranger? I knew her, where you come up with "closely" I have yet to surmise. Uggghhh. You're just stubborn. I give up...as usual. You're right...k?

 

No way you could be wrong. It's either THE MOTHER OF MY CHILD, might I add, is a super hoe...or I'm somehow embellishing. Just no way two "normal" people could go on a date and fall in love. Smh. Thanks a lot yo :smt023

 

True,but at least we won't have to regret having slept with him later on after finding out he's a player or no good .

 

What are you talking about? Chauvinistic?? huh?

Did you miss my point? Again, if in the one month, she decides to fuck the 30 men she goes on dates with because she liked them, you'd have no problem with it, correct? I'll wait.

 

Same here.
For me sex is something very intimate and special that I don't just want to give out to every next best guy who wants to screw me,regardless of how handsome he may be.
I want that to happen with someone I see potential in ,in regards to a relationship.
Not everyone functions and thinks the same way.

 

Wait? Me too. First I'll have to know somebody that sleeps with 30 men in 30 days. And I'd be a chauvinist if I assumed that because a woman CHOSE to sleep with A MAN on ONE first date that she would sleep with 30 men in 30 days. That my dear is chauvinistic thinking. And that is not how I view women and the choices they make.

 

This isn't about right or wrong, this is about your story changing. You never revealed you have known her for years. People in this thread have said they 'FUCK ON THE FIRST NIGHT"

You story doesn't fly papi. The fact is, you didn't just decide out of the blue with this woman to fuck, ie: "oh look hun, we are on our first date so lets fuck" Please.

Give us a better example. Thx.

 

We were talking about a very specific situation...which you then, through some sort of voodoo math, made into 30 men in 30 days. We were talking about a single first date. Nothing more, nothing less. I don't need to strecth the parameters of a conversation to the ridiculous to make a point. Again...I digress

 

And you were chosen judge and jury when? I missed the memo. You never had a first date with someone you already knew? Or are all of you first dates with strangers? If so, where the hell are you meeting these strangers ma...be careful. There's a lot of nuts out here. And my story never changed. You just assumed that my ex knew nothing about me prior to our first date, and you know what happens when you do that sunshine. Maybe you have the terms first date and blind date twisted hun. Lemme educate you. SMH.