Have you ever dated someone and not had the urge....

...to see other members of the opposite sex let alone even flirt or look at other members of the opposite sex?

im talking about being completely captivated by a person and have no desire to be with anyone else or check out members of the opposite sex in a sexual manor.

 

In short...NO!

 

Yes!!!

 

Yes, but I've never met someone who could sustain that level of captivation. New relationships are hot and steamy, but my experience is that it eventually gets "comfortable". You either mentally move on to that next level in the relationship, or eyes start to wander. I think it's human nature to be intrigued by others...doesn't mean you have to act on it though.

 

I agree. I only want to be with my chick but I jerk off to every chick I can find in porn lol. But other real life women no longer have any appeal to me. Me andmy chick fit and expefience has taught me that shit is rarer than pigs flying so hold on as tight as you can when you find it. Those other braods are only good for a momentary nut thats it.

 

i have always been the same way until recently.

:freehug:

ive never had it until recently... i highly doubt ill ever get comfortable and even if i do mentally and physically i feel complete and never had this... i am assuming ill be this way until i die. wishful thinking.


this topic is all new for me and im embracing it... its even gotten to a point where for instance... yesterday while at the dispensary... the chick behind the counter, i mentioned i needed a rag to wipe out the rental car i had because i was smoking in it and ashes were everywhere.. she said, dont rub it, you have to blow it. she then proceeded to tell me she could come out and blow my car down for $60... i couldnt even respond to her, it was as if my mouth piece didnt want to function. in my younger days.. she woulda been in the whip hookin me up

i say all that because its an amazing feeling to not want to take up women on their offers and be completely enamored by someone. just wondering if the guys primarily have ever been this way.

no simp in me nuckas

want to know something odd as a mutha fucka... since i met my lady, i havent even had the urge to rub one out to porn. well, in the first week i did but then when i tried it i just couldnt finish, it wasnt thrilling enough for me any more.

 

So romantic lol! I feel ya though. IMO it's completely natural to still find others attractive even when you're in a committed relationship. Doesn't mean you're going to fuck everyone who winks back.

If that's how you're feeling, go with it. I hope it stays how you think it will :freehug:

 

Yes,that has happened to me in my longest and most serious relationship so far.
I would of course not turn blind and if I happened to walk by a handsome man that was it already.
Only thinking he's handsome,but not jumping further than that in my thoughts,developping any kind of fantasies,desires or anything of that nature.
I was very excited and looking forward to spend time with that guy all day long until we would get to talk or meet.
Sadly he did not feel the same way about me as I did for him,as it turned out.

 

Lol that will change but enjoy that euphoria while you can. Its all perfectly natural

 

i am glad to hear you know what im referring to but sad to hear he didn't reciprocate.

its a good feeling though when you feel that way isnt it!

doubt it, but ill let you know if it changes.

 

It must be a great feeling to have though. And maybe it's a character flaw on my part. But I'm looking! To not have the urge to look, I dunno. I think it's human nature to look at things that are attractive to us. But more power to whoever has been that into somebody...maybe one day I'll be able to say differently.

 

True on the bolded part But a painful/sad feeling when learning it was one sided.

 

I think it's one thing to look, another thing to actively pay attention to. When I'm in love, I'm aware of other attractive men, but I have no desire to focus on them or let my thoughts dwell on them.

 

This!

 

I would never do something to my significant other, that I wouldn't want done to me. And as a man, I realize some women are hypersensitive when it comes to that kinda stuff. There's one thing to acknowledge beauty...there's another thing to gawk at another woman. A tasteful, unassuming glance never hurt nobody though :smt047

 

I always lick/bite my lips when I see a gorgeous man. I don't even realize I'm doing it half the time until I notice them staring lol. Terrible habit... :smt077

 

(Ted Allen voice) "You've been Chopped"

 

Lmao what does that even mean?!

 

I would break up with my lady if I saw her biting her lip and looking at another dude. Zero tolerance policy. I know my worth...and that ain't it!

 

Like I said...IF I'm in love, I'm well behaved. If I'm single...that's another story. It's that simple.