Do nice guys finish last?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bigrob, Jul 28, 2011.

  1. suzieb

    suzieb New Member

    yes I suppose so, it is quite a wide-spread phenomenon lol!

    I have never wanted that kind of man, but I do seem to have attracted them likes flies to crap haha.

    And thank you :) he really does seem to be a gem, but hey, its only been a month, and I've been horribly wrong before lol x
     
  2. CAKicker

    CAKicker Well-Known Member

    Nice Girls? They actually exist?:p
     
  3. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Since you guys got nice guys down to a science, what the fuck is a "bad boy" and what makes them actually "bad"?

    Don't y'all get sick of silly labels?
     
  4. suzieb

    suzieb New Member

    lol it isn't a science to me. some men are dicks, some arent. Just as some women are dicks, and some arent.
    hey, thats about as scientific as it gets for me!
     
  5. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Yes, but it helps to categorize (although usually not completely accurately), the human experience.

    When I was younger (17-22 years old), I was not a nice girl thus didn't care about the boys and if they were nice or not. I did me and I did it with a vengeance.

    Then I got married to a man whom I thought was nice - turns out I'm not a great judge of character nor a good partner lol.

    Been through a minor relationship or two since then and have realized that the only bad boy (or nice guy) that I want in my life is a four legged fur baby. Even Jesus himself couldn't get me interested in a date nowadays...

    Maybe in a year or two (or a couple of months - after the boards), I'll be in a better head space when it comes to dating. Just being honest with y'all and myself.
     
  6. JamahlSharif

    JamahlSharif Well-Known Member

    I couldn't agree more. Some people are just not good people. It's really that simple.
     
  7. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    Yes, but sometimes it's not obvious who is what at first blush. Lots of not-so-good people posing as good people and by the time you discover that, you've developed feelings and then you feel like an idiot for having been had. :smt102
     
  8. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Exactly! This is why I'm so guarded irl. Not ideal, but you either learn from your mistakes or you continue to play the fool. This girl's not playing anymore...I've officially given up on any man with a neck tattoo ;)
     
  9. JamahlSharif

    JamahlSharif Well-Known Member

    My grandma always told me "when you first meet someone, that isn't really them...it's their representative. the real person takes at least 6 months to surface."
     
  10. JamahlSharif

    JamahlSharif Well-Known Member

    Neck tattoo = Never having a good job.
     
  11. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    You got that right. They are sexy.as.hell though :smt045
     
  12. JamahlSharif

    JamahlSharif Well-Known Member

    So is money, lol
     
  13. RaiderLL

    RaiderLL Well-Known Member

    Touché :)
     
  14. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    what is a good job exactly?
     
  15. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    I hear you
     

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