WHAT DO YOU THINK???

LOL.

I remember when I was a kid...I was jamming with them singing the YMCA and now Im laughing at it:smt107:smt042

 

You know the leather guy had died in 02 or 03. Their manager or producer had died, also. The Indian left the group. The cowboy had been replaced. The soldier became a sailor(when they recorded In The Navy. The U.S. Navy cooperated in the production of the video). I remember the most sexual song that they did was Sleazy. The construction worker was featured in this one.

 

hell no it doesnt, it means you take care of yourself. plus, the nail shop is the best place to recruit.

 

I had a pedicure once. I liked it and result at the end. And my feet felt great. That certainly did not make me gay.

 

we like it when women keep themselves up, doods be thinking it be alright having funky ass nails and then wanna put them inside a lady... smdh. #StepYoGameUp

 

Exactly! A pedicure can mean a great deal of difference between a conversation between you and a loved one about the first time she took it all in and the possibility that she has a blue waffle due to your unkempt fingers.

 

yep! they wonder how they can get a miss america type of lady being crusty. a woman's lady parts are sensitive, you don't want her catching blue waffles.

 

Or duck butter for that matter! :vom:

 

:smt078 The thought of male feet. Now, how do I un-read that statement?

But seriously, I'm glad you're secure enough in your manhood to march in and get yourself a "pedi".

However for me, there's something effeminate about paying $$ to sit there on the throne while someone fiddles about your feet, making them pretty. I can see a women wanting her feet to be pretty, but... :smt017

At my last job, there were guys who thought it was effeminate to drink tea rather than coffee. There are guys who think being "artistic" is gay (unless it's about tattoos or custom motorcycles). There are guys who won't do some things because they're too effeminate (like own a certain breed of dog, or a cat) and there are guys who do stupid things because they're "masculine" (like own a gas-guzzling hum vee or a neck tattoo).

I'm none of those guys, but I sense that men and women and gays and straights are different, and getting a "pedi", like wearing foundation or getting a bikini wax or being fucked with a strap-on, is pretty damn effeminate.

To each there own though. I don't hate or "hate on" gay people. I don't hate straight guys who get pedis either. But I'd still be disgusted and wouldn't run with such a dude.

No insult intended, tho...

 

it depends on the person who views him some people will just deem him gay no matter what, but sounds to me he was just experimenting at the time, he is obviously comfortable with himself by the sounds of it

 

But anyway, to the o.p. - only "your friend" really knows if he's gay or not.

I think most straight guys have a visceral reaction to an attractive female's body (attraction) and a visceral reaction to the male body (revulsion).

I'm not sure that all straight guys are revolted by the male form, but I would guess so.

And that begs the question: if the guy is straight, what would attract him to male flesh -- nasty male ass, male feet, male face, male voice... How can you not know in advance that it's not for you? What would turn you on about it beforehand? What turned you off about it (presumably, after you came)?

Only your friend knows the answer to these questions.

Maybe the guy had a gun to his head. Or paid him a whole lot of money when he really needed it for some crack. As a heroin addict, Malcolm X also had sex with men, you know, before fathering a family with a woman.

It's the details that count. Did you ask him?

Anyway, I have a feeling that this wasn't your friends first experience, nor will it be the last, if there's enough attraction to the male form there to impel him to have sex with a dude in the first place.

 

I felt very comfortable placing my feet in the warm water. A cute Asian woman washing and scraping the dead skin off my feet. The trimming of my toe nails. Having a pedicure is neccessary to grooming.

 

Best thing to do, is to only be concerned with your own morals, and how you view yourself. If the dude says he isn't gay then thats how he feels. Even if you think he is gay, that doesn't change anything in his life or how he feels about his identity. I honestly think however, that your friend is indeed gay, but he wanted to see how you guys would react to his story. Maybe he thought that some of you had also tried it before and by saying he only did it once could break the ice to further gay confessions among your friends.