WHAT DO YOU THINK???

Recently i went on a trip with the fellas as we do yearly you know card games, dominos which i don't know how to play,bar and strip club hopping,and of course sitting around shooting the shit,and in shooting the shit one of the Bro's made a stunning confession,he has always been the pretty boy on the wild side out of the group, getting manicures, pedicures,carries the man purse, to me bitchness, bitchass shit,and other than that to me he had no feminine charcteristics at all anyway this mofo confessed that he had sex with a man,one time, years ago, and he didn't like it,and wouldn't do it again and i am wondering how would he be classified i am not God...and not the master judge...BUT!! WTF!your opinion what would he be considered gay,Bi, i mean what??to me that is some gay ass shit i aint fucking no man:butthead: and no man is fucking me:smt018,and he doesn't consider himself gay but this a homosexual act and in my opinion he is homosexual when we all left that night we all were like:shock:..everybody was kinda speechless & wow!:smt102 What's your view on this dude?

 

He's gay... I don't know why your surprised, everyone has atleast 1 gay person in their circle these days.

 

At best he's bi-curious. Being homosexual is simply having strong sexual attractions (almost - 99.999%) exclusively to the same sex. Simply engaging in that activity just once doesn't make the person gay, especially when he explicitly stated that he didn't like it. So, ruling out the possibility of him being exclusively attracted to men is highly unlikely.

And secondly, why are you getting your dick up in a tizzy because of his past sexual encounters? That says more about you than to the person you're too quick to judge.

 

I agee with MS. You need to ask yourself why you care so much, unless he is trying to get to your ass you don't need to concern yourself with who he has sex with. To answer your question, no i don't think he is gay probably just experimenting.

 

This :smt081

 

Exactly.

But mama, if there is one thing you need to know about the vast majority of black people (in America for example) regarding sexuality is that they fundamentally uneducated in this area. This isn't a means to attack anyone, but it's factually stated simply because most of them lack the necessary educational grounds on the foundations of sexuality. Tradition and perceptions of some old world viewpoint (neé religion) reinforces that sort of rigor. And then, fear is another component.

So, you're bound to get responses as common as the posts seen by the vast majority of them.

 

Is he still your friend after learning these things about him? Do you tolerate and accept him? It is obvious that he is comfortable with himself and it is obvious you have a problem with him. Have you thought that your friend may have been through some kind of trauma like sexual or emotional abuse? He is not hiding what kind of person he is and he does not want to be judged, categorized or defined.

 

I really could give a flying fuck about his sexual past my dick will never be in a tizzy over a hard leg.. Never that move!! i'm just kinda shock at one of my homies came out like this i have been knowing him for years i really really don't give a shit about his sexual habits past etc.again I am NOT THE MASTER JUDGE! IT'S MY OPINION!(which i have a right to)

 

I don't need to ask myself shit because i don't give a shit!! Honestly i don't care that is his dick his ass not mine...i am here asking an opinion if anyone feels if he gay or not.. you did well, you answered the question.

 

You're contradicting yourself here like crazy. You say that you couldn't give a flying fuck about his past, yet you've created a thread talking about it and getting all up in arms like it's the worst thing that has happened to you. You may hold that right to speak on it, however ignorant you portray yourself, but when you go on about this as though he's dead to you, then there is something else at play with your personal proclivities.

 

WHAT THE FUCK EVER!! YOU ARE MAKING A FUCKING MOUTAIN OUT OF MOLE HILL...... MOVE ON!!TAKE THAT AS IGNORANT!!..AND WHO THE HELL ARE YOU TO SAY WHAT BLACKS ARE AND ARE NOT EDUCATED ON.

 

You're certainly not helping at all proving me wrong. When you made this post...

...this only cements the perception that generally speaking, you really have a lot of growing up to do on this subject matter. Rather than acting like a two-year old, actually talk to you friend about it rather than revel in ignorance. That's one way to shed some perceived ignorance.

 

Stupid question : If you don't give a shit if he's gay or bi & you still see him as your boy and all, then why the hell do you want to know what total strangers on the internet think about his status?

Just me, but I wouldn't be putting anyone that I considered one of my homeboys business on blast on the internet with a bunch of strangers just for convo.....:smt009

 

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I'll be sure to spread some rep before giving it to you.

 

you are right a bunch of strangers you don't KNOW me you don't know him i was asking for opinions.why not just answer the question at hand?this has become about me giving a shit about one of my homies sexual past y'all have taken the thread in another direction..about me and WHAT I care...WTF?

 

:smt022YOU DO THAT!!Again i don't give a shit!!:smt022

 

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Yeah.......some you negroes up in here really tell on yourselves big time...:smt011

 

:smt102Huh?