Best US city for IR relationships

Discussion in 'How To Meet White Women and Black Men' started by DJ, Dec 2, 2005.

  1. DJ

    DJ New Member

    What cities in the US are the best/worst for interracial dating?
     
  2. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    1. minneapolis
    montclair new jersey
    brooklyn new york
    san fran
    san diego
    pheonix ariz
    manhattan ny
    columbia md
    seattle washington
    san antonio texas
    madison wisc
    suburban boston
    DC
    philadelphia Pa
    san jose cali
    houston texas
    portland oregon
    atlanta georgia
    burlington VT
    albany new york
    chicago ill
    detroit
    porltand Maine
     
  3. charmer

    charmer Member

    How does anyone know this? :?
     
  4. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    easily, travel, read, do research on interracial issues, on diversity, tolerance and levels of racial incidences against IR couples, comfortability factors from IR couples who answer questionaires, census records, articles in newspapers and magazines.
     
  5. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Some of the worst:

    Boston, MA
    Savannah, GA
    Palm Springs, CA
    Brooklyn, NY
    Orlando, FL


    States like Alabama, West Virginia, Tennessee, Kansas, New Mexico, Arkansas, North Dakota, and pretty much anywhere in the deep south.
     
  6. Kid Rasta

    Kid Rasta Restricted

    Without a doubt Minneapolis is #1.

    The Kid Rasta 8)
     
  7. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    for the research on best places for interracial couples and families go to:

    www.diversitydtg.com look on articles and interracial families

    the top 5

    1 montclair nj
    2 san san jose
    3 denver co
    4 san diego
    5 Washington dc

    6 Seattle
    7 Minneapolis
    8 Madison WS
    9 Oakland Ca
    10 Columbus OH
     
  8. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    You guys are forgetting the beautiful city of MIAMI. Believe me y'all, you'd see just about any kind of existent IR dating here.

    But anyways, the top 5 for IR dating in my opinion would be:

    Washington DC
    New York City
    Los Angeles
    Miami
    Minneapolis
     
  9. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    sardonic--have you been to Vermont??? if you have then you would know it is one of the best places for IR couples

    the point of the question is where is it most comfortable for IR couples and Vermont is a winter and summer play ground for tolerant minded people and especially IRs. As is Marthas Vineyard, Nantucket, Bar Harbor, North Central Calif, Colorado, and the upper midwest
     
  10. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Vermont has IR couples???

    Maybe I should've said Maine, since the Northeast is so upper-class white bred, and proud of it.
     
  11. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    I heard Denver was one of the best cities in America, and I've been to Savannah, GA, Cincinnati, OH, Orlando, FL, Washington, DC, all around Virginia State, and other parts of the Northeast like Silver Spring and Kensington, so I know where not to go.
     
  12. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    what do you mean by white bread upper class? there are many working class people in New England--from Bridgeport and Hartford CT, to Providence RI, to Lowell, to Manchester NH and yes even Maine.

    of course there are IR couples in Vermont, and it is very comfortable there for IRs. If you havent been there how can you comment on the IR situation there or even Maine--where in Maine have you been that it isnt comfortable to IR couples, since I have been all over the state and only the working class towns are even close to being uncomfortable and yet they really arent.

    the only place in New England that is really uncomfortable for IRs and minorities in South Boston among the poorest of Irish people--the wealthy New Englanders are very nice and accepting
     
  13. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    In general, i'd have to say the East and Midwest are the most accepting when it comes to IR dating. In places like Chicago, New York, Philly and New England, its not such a big deal when a bm/ww walk down the road holding hands.
    On the other hand, the South are the least accepting. I've been giving the bad eye many times when i used to live in Los Angeles. Mostly by black women and white men as we can well imagine. Many times i've had to encounter getting a billion looks by some obnoxious onlookers who find it rather disgusting to see a bm with a ww/lw. Odd isnt it????
    I'd say if you wanna enjoy a great ir relationship, the East and Midwest is the place for you. The West Coast, some parts? The South, not in my wildest dreams (with the exception of MIAMI :lol: )
     
  14. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    That's what I mean. It's a more upper class society than other white-populated areas like trailer parks or apartment complexes in other states.


    The biggest cities in America seem to be the safest for IR dating.


    So, it has something to do with economics?
     
  15. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    actually they are not always the safest--boston is still considered the most racist city in america and its not all that comfortable for an IR couple--meanwhile, Bar Harbor Maine; Burlington Vermont, Albany New York; Northhampton Mass are so much more comfortable and openly welcoming to IR couples--esp bm/ww--they even produced a book(OF Many Colors) to promote IR relationships
     
  16. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Well, I would say most of them are because the biggest cities in America have more minorities than whites in them, but I see your point. Boston has a reputation for being racist.
     
  17. DCQT782

    DCQT782 New Member

    To answer the most IR friendly city question...I would without a doubt say Washington DC and parts of it's metro area. I can walk down the street with my boyfriend without a care in the world. I think we had maybe one problem when an elderly woman on the metro glared at us, but other then that, no bad experiences here. We are a very culture accepting area. When I go out to clubs there are people of all races dancing together. BM/WW, BW/WM...it's a beautiful thing to live life without worrying about someones color. BTW when someone asks me to describe my boyfriend...I don't say that he is black. Not because I am ashamed, because Lord knows I love me some brothas. I don't say it because it doesn't even register to me, he's just my boyfriend.
     
  18. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

  19. Darman

    Darman New Member

    From what I've heard they are Minneapolis, Portland (Oregon), Richmond, Champaign (Illinois), Atlanta, San Francisco, Phoenix and Denver.
     
  20. Kid Rasta

    Kid Rasta Restricted

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