I am also attracted to both! I was raised up in the inner city, but I currently reside in the burbs, so it's good to get the best of both worlds!
Well, in my case, I think it would be good to take the word "thug" out of the equation altogether. Having the combination of roughness and gentleness in the bedroom is definitely an excellent thing and, at the same time, doesn't really classify him a thug, but it's also nice seeing him having class and dignity in public as well. I don't know; I look at a guy for who he is. I've never really been attracted to the "thuggish", "Pants hanging off their butt", "Slang-use" kind of man. But regardless to where he comes from (Whether it be the Inner-City, the Burbs, or the Rural areas), the mate I choose has to be a fine representation of me, and I have to represent him well also.
Honestly, I'm attracted to the suburban guy. I like someone who has that smart, sexy, professional swag. Not into those bad boys like I used to be as a teenage girl...
i know what you are saying..... we have a saying...."we want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets"
Hahaha...good one, Mr. Smarty Pants Tighty Whities. My erotic thread has done quite well without it, thank you very much. :smt019