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Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bookworm616, Oct 7, 2011.

  1. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    The African man keeps texting me - I really like him as a person, but not sure what to do. He keeps saying "this is the last time I will contact you", but then he keeps contacting me... Yikes!

    Do I have to have a relationship with a homely man to be cherished?
     
  2. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    Welcome to the South, where [lifted] pick-up trucks are popular, Conservatives are the norm, NRA members are abundant, and Country Music is revered. :)


    You'll eventually get used to it.
     
  3. Alinoa

    Alinoa New Member

    My darling dearest,
    I can't begin to formulate the words that could express the sadness I feel at this post. It is so raw and tender that I can't possibly imagine the depth of these emotions you feel.
    That he took his own life is something that is hard to move past. Most of the cliches about suicide seem so...condescending. But there is one that I sort of clung to when I had to go through the things with my kids.

    Those who take their life die but once. Those left behind die a thousand deaths wondering why.

    Because even if the answer is simple, like a mental illness, to come to terms with what it means to lose a family member through a death by their own hands, it leaves doubts and fears and many scars that linger long after the suicide itself takes place.

    Now is the time to be gentle with yourself and your family. Seek support if you would through groups that offer it and specialize in families affected by the death of a loved one by suicide. I would suggest that your mom do so because she will probably bare the most pain in this loss. Not to negate anyone elses suffering..but as a mother..
    I can't imagine the utter loss and heartbreak she must feel right now.

    If I could, I would hug you and hold you long.

    But a virtual hug and kiss on the cheek will have to suffice.

    Stay strong but gentle K. You are in my prayers. As is your family and especially your brother.
     
  4. Troublewitahalo

    Troublewitahalo New Member

    Majestic...although I am new here, I want you to know, you are not alone.
    In Jan of 1999 I buried my father....in March of 1999, I buried my mother, in Nov of 1999 I buried my grandmother. Yes, it was hard...yes there will be tears out of the blue. But I promise you, it gets better. That hole will always be there, but slowly days will get brighter. If you ever need to talk or vent...I am here.
     
  5. Alinoa

    Alinoa New Member

    I just want to say that I'm pretty damn proud of my country tonight.

    Collectively we kicked ass and took names.

    And my hope now is that the people who represent us in government can reach across party line affiliation and actually focus on what matters. Like education and veterans rights and building a stronger nation.

    Instead of worrying about who sleeps with whom and what part of Africa our prez was born in and the decision I would need to make if I was ever raped and ended up pregnant.

    And if I don't have to hear another thing about mitt and his taxes ill be complete.
     
  6. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    oyy, almost every channel is country. As long as I have my NPR, I am good.
     
  7. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    I am glad that this country remember that we don't need R & R but to get back to work!

    That is where President Obama has been leading us for the last 4 years.
    I am glad that it is over. For a split second , I thought we might get a fasict but I gained hope again after the next election.


    Side note, We, Floridians, voted down not following Obama care.
     
  8. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member


    I'm close to the george bush park. South west side.:smt004
     
  9. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    ah, your ways out. How is it there? Where is your work located?
     
  10. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member


    It is ok. Roads are messed up. I'm working on a system to model molecules. It is at the Baylor plaza.
     
  11. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    A new Democratic Hope
    released 2008!

    Return of the republicans
    released 2010


    Return of the Democrat
    Released 2012




    Watch all of these at your local United States!

    :smt042
     
  12. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    LOng commute! Why do you live out there?
     
  13. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    .........People are not going to vote against Santa Claus if the alternative is being your own Santa Claus......
     
  14. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    :smt104 Weird....

     
  15. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    I just checked it out.
    For a guy who had a 32 mile coomute. It seemed short.
    I clearly didn't know any better. lol
    However, I am planning to buy a house so I will see if there is a house closer to the building.
     
  16. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    LOL. Yeah traffic in H-town is no play.
    When are you planning on buying?
     
  17. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member


    I want to get settled first But I will be looking maybe a month from now.

    Where are the bad areas?
     
  18. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Hahaha

    Obama is the Santa Claus?

    Santa where is my gift? I want my gift to be wrapped with nothing but with blue eyed Scandinavian buxom blonde, lol
     
  19. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    ........If ANYBODY personally knows a republican....please give him a hug today......He needs it........
     
  20. orejon4

    orejon4 Well-Known Member

    ROFLMAO
     

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