Not taking rejection personally

That's a nice rack you've got there Tarshi.

 

Stupid question....for the guys...

Is there a signal, a look, a smile, SOMETHING that us WW can do to let you know we are interested?

 

A nice hello would suffice as an ice breaker accompanied by a little innocuous flirting within a conversation around an ad hoc subject matter, intended just to make small talk.

No great riddle to it.

 

Exactly.

I don't get why some people think black men/white women are some other fucking species. We're all just people. It's not like there's a secret interracial handshake. Jeeeez. :smt021

I think maybe the problem is that the people who think that black men are sooo different from white men maybe don't have many friends of other ethnicities. My social group is a mixture of bi racial, black, white, Asian etc... men and women.

 

I notice a huge difference in black men and white men...well here anyway. I can be in a bar and if you make eye contact with a black guy he will say hello and talk to you. White men, never do that! Then again, maybe it's me!
I have no problems walking up to someone, but it's hard for us we to know if a bm is into us or not.

 

hmmmm..

they tend to let you know.
without reservation. if its hard to tell...then its probably a no.

 

I usually just let them know off the bat that they are my type. (I have no filter on my mouth). But have to choose wisely as to who to approach.

 

When a woman looks into my eyes and holds that gaze for a few seconds, smiles and looks away in a coyish or shy way, it gets my juices flowing.

 

Good to know I'm doing the right thing...