Wow - it's the same way here!! Drunk rednecks get up the nerve to talk to my boyfriend and get all chummy with and start hugging him and asking him if they can touch his hair and stuff (such freaking gay stuff they wouldn't be caught DEAD doing if they were sober), people slapping him on the back telling him he's a "good man" for taking me to the reunion, like WTF? Luckily he grew up in the boondocks playing with little redneck country white kids and went to a practically all white high school so this didn't phase him at all - he just laughed. I was on MY guard. But he can handle himself - he was twice their size. Then if I go to an all black club, guys will look at me out of the corners of their eyes, but they are scared shitless of their dates and other very pro-black members of their communities, for being disloyal to the community, for so much as saying hello to me - I can just feel the vibration. It makes me sad.
Makes me stop and think about last year, when I went to "for sisters only" at the Washington Convention Center. Everything I enjoyed, from music to the vendors were there and I thoroughly enjoyed myself. But the STARES I received from some - hell... a lot - of blacks (mostly women) looked at me like WTF is she doing here. I can't stand that type of negative attention. Why can't we all just enjoy the music and festivities? I mean...i know why. But it never makes sense. Probably because im a white woman. Needless to say, no black men approached me. Out of fear, I suppose of what their peers would think or say. But there was this one, fine man working at the state farm booth...he gave me his card but I talked myself out of calling him. Lol
Sorry to hear that you two, hang with me because Northside doesn't give a single 747 flying fuck who is watching or commenting on the sidelines. Cherok33 you can sit on my face in the middle of a NAACP fundraiser for all I care.
Don't have time to ponder the ratio of white to black flesh. I'm a motherfucker in any social setting.
Now you've just got to find someone's dick for me to suck LOL, don't care much for the face-sitting :smt025 I'll take Sonny Dragon or whatever he's calling himself now, if he's free...:smt047
IDK, I met Mark at the club he worked at which was mixed. My previous boyfriend I met from his sister. I have been hit on more when I go to this particular club run by the Masons in Boston with my friend who is black, than when I go out to the mostly white clubs in Providence, so who knows?
Silly them. They must be bent-over, butterball crazy. I wouldn't give a DAMN what people thought!!.........lol. You didn't call him???? I just might've been Mr. Right for ya'!! As State Farm loves to say, "Like a good neighbor......."
