Would you date or marry someone with kids?

I almost dated a person with a kid, but I didn't know she liked me that way, until it was too late. It would really depend on the female.

 

As a man with no kids (at least that I know about) still waiting to be called on the Muary Show....( I'm not the babies Daddy) All joking aside it would depend on the female, and where she is in her life. I dont want to be caught up with baby daddy drama. Or to be caught with the Ex whatever with his plans or wants that could effect my or our plans for the weekend.

Have a Great Day...Better yet have two great days and give one away...The Joy of Giving

 

I don't know anymore,I have in the past but women with kids always try and get back with the father one time or another,they also tend to sleep with the childs father every now and then.so I run away from women with kids

 

Tend to sleep with the children's father every now and then? I certainly haven't, neither have my friends.

 

I think I'd rather shoot myself in the face than sleep with my son's father again. He's a okay guy and there's no drama whatsoever but I'm just not attracted to him at all.

 

Lol it's not a something that usually happens, you just met the wrong women

 

Well the last time I've dated a woman with kids I was 25yrs she was 23yrs.this issue tends to be with younger women who still believe "it can work" with the father.those are the woman I'm talking a about.
Older mature women seem to have gotten that out their system

 

I'm in my early 20's.

 

I'll agree with this and put it down to flexibility for men to date due to when they have the kids. For me, the only free time I have with no kids is one weekend a month

 

I'm not looking for a relationship at all right now but I'd happily date someone who had a kid.

I have a son. There is no drama at all with his father. I'd expect the same with the guy's child's mother.

If I dated a guy with kid(s) my main concern would be to make sure that he is a good father. The BIGGEST turn off is a deadbeat dad.

As a mother my main problem with dating guys without kids is that they cannot accept they are not and never will be my #1. For the rest of my life that spot is reserved for Jacob.

 

It's much easier for the 'part time parent' (without fulltime custody) to date.

But fuck it, I'd rather have my Kobi than date some guy who can't accept that my schedule isn't that flexible.

 

Absolutely!!! I guess that's why I've given up on dating for the timebeing, my main concern is Harps and Daisy

 

Lol we Aussies do love things big like texans, but no, Daisy is named after my English great aunt

 

what if her kids are white?

Just a thought, say you're a bm and you hit it off with ww. She is da bomb, her head is screwed on right - you can't find any fault in her, especially when her eye lids flutter.......but turns out she has a child, from a white guy. Is that too complicated? More complicated than if her child was mixed?

It's never happened to me, but I'm sure a brotha here must have run into this at some stage in his runnin's.

I'm just curious is all.

 

yeah, I would have to ask questions.

one child maybe

two kids two dads...very afraid.

three kids three dads...hell no.

my questions would look to see if she was married to the dad(s). find extreme circumstances. lets say.....she has three kids.

one from one marriage and the other two from another marriage. then I would be more comfortable buit need more info. Im looking for bad judgement, drama searching woman ect...

I met one woman who had one child but married 3 times. one was because she married a soldier (she knew he was a soldier. she was married to a soldier before) but would not move when he was transferred to germany. then she divorced him due to the distance. That showed me she is stupid and selfish. there were more details in there that would tell she is stupid and selfish that im not terlling you but trust me.