Is there anything off limits in your relationship?

AWWW... they have an identity, they are just in love. Or that is just how they like to do things. I personally don't use FB.

 

I think it depends on how serious the relationship is. If it is just dating, then leave all my stuff alone I will share it when and if I want to and I will extend the same courtesy to him.

If it is a serious relationship I would think overtime that these things would be shared, no secrets no problems.

 

^^^ Agree with you, Mel

I don't care. If you want to look at my shit - and you are my man, go right ahead.
But let me see yours, too..otherwise, no deal.

 

Also - you may not walk in on me while I am on the toilet. It's ok if I see you pee (standing up), but I will never again be involved in a relationship with an open bathroom door.

*still love to see a man pee*

Call me crazy - oh wait, I already am.:smt068

Caveat: If we were hiking in the woods and I really had to pee, I would not mind you watching. It's just the "sitting on the toilet" thing I can't deal with.

 

I have to chime in this conversation. Otherwise, I just wouldn't be "me".....lol.

Being that women are considered the more sexier ones between the 2 sexes, I can certainly understand saintaugusta's point about not wanting to be seen on the toilet, and that's all good. I can respect & admire that. NO problem....lol.

.....HOWEVER, for those women in this thread that are saying that going through your phone is off limits, why? What is there to hide?

If a woman, for a minute, though her man was doing something behind her back (even if, after doing TONS of digging, it was discovered that he wasn't), she'd go through his phone in a hot minute. BOTTOM line......lol.

Hey, I'm just sayin'!!

 

Yeah I found out my boyfriend's exgirlfriend from 10 years ago called to wish him a happy birthday and have "other conversations"... on his cell, on his birthday, probably 1 or 2 days after I asked her to respect me and keep her distance. She was an old woman by then but still she felt the need to try to hone in on my territory and see if she could STILL sway him. (in a BFF way).
Luckily I don't have to deal with his white ass any more. He liked to jack off to vintage Playboy magazines and old pictures of exgirlfriends. NO THANKS, LOSER.

Hope to hell I see him this weekend - it's the art festival in the city where I live, and everybody that's anybody will be there. He was there last year. I didn't go. I look great this year - hope to run into his dump of a girlfriend. Maybe they've broken up by now. Who cares - I can't measure up to "special ed teacher". I'll just teach prisoners instead.

 

My arse and my money.

 

Yeah, ass is off limits - until the wedding ring goes ON... Done it before, not doing it again. So degrading. If you are my husband however, all bets are off.

I will figure out a way to make it work. No matter how much it hurts.

 

That makes one of us; as far as I'm concerned, the pain is not worth it...

 

It's worth it for the right man - not just anyone. The right man could get me to do just about anything.

 

Yep, we shared PIN numbers and account info all the time. The problems began when he started looking through my phone.

 

Agreed I think it'd naturally happen over time.

For me, it all depends on WHY things would be shared.

If I felt they're asking for my information out of jealously/ insecurity and would just use it as an excuse to snoop, I wouldn't share. If you don't trust me, then nothing's going to come out of this sharing anyways.

I'd only want someone's information if they're willing to give it to me, and want me to actually do something with it. Never a random, "oh, here's my facebook password, if you ever want to go on...", because why would I feel the need to? If I like someone and they say they don't do dirt, I'd believe them... if I didn't trust them, I wouldn't like them in the first place

Besides, if you're snooping around and actually find something that you'd want to talk to your partner about... you're just going to make yourself look bad for the creepin' around anyways *shrugs*

 

Their is nothing to hide but I find it intrusive.... Your way of thinking is why jobs these days feel it's perfectly ok to ask for your Facebook password and look around. Even tho we are together, I still feel some things are better left unshared so we continue living out our "own" lives plus im territorial.

You can't use my favorite controller either.

 

I do not agree with any job wanting passwords for anything, I stay away from facebook though because of the nature of my job.

I can respect the need for privacy and yet admit at one point in my life I was the nosey woman with no respect for the man I was dating.

It would seriously hurt my feelings though if you wouldn't share your controller. just sayin..

 

I have to say, I feel similar about the personal space and how it can be intrusive. Everyone has their need of privacy, however innocent (or not)...i treat others accordingly. If I'm diggin him, he will know it by the way i treat him
..he won't have to worry about being jealous of anyone else.

BTW...I'm gonna play w your controller >

 

Y'all keep y'all greasy lay's potatoe chip palms off my controller.... Come play with the joystick instead.

 

I SAID I am gonna play with your controller...you'll let me cuz I said so.

 

Suppose I do give you the privledge to play with my legendary controller.... You have absolutely no clue how to play you noob lol.

 

I don't.

But you can teach me

<3

LOL

 

I have NEVER and will never go through anyone's phone I am not paying the bill for, the expection being my kids if I thought they were doing something illegal. It's a simple mattaer of privacy for me.

I never even when through my ex husband of 20 yeasrs phone.