Random Conversation 2.0

I know they're not an item, but these pics of them together are great. If that's fake friendship and affection, it's very well staged. lol

It's not really my cup of tea, but I hope the show is a big success.

 

she's a woman

by that age, she's an all-star at faking

 

Alcohol was not invovled was a brief meeting. No hope of a recooncilation, all we can both do is move on. As the old saying goes, "sometimes love just ain't enough."

Just want to chill and stick with those closet to me, relax, recover and kick the heavy bag at the gym and punch the speed bag.

 

Don't go.

 

Should I make this my profile image? It's cute like a Pokemon.

 

It's windier than satans bottom

 

Smells nicer than a group of rednecks fapping on a piglet too.

 

Why not, Stiletoes? And what do you think I did?

 

Don't go because you will regret it, obviously you are not over the man. As I have no idea what your thought process is I could not conjecture as to what your actions are or were.

 

Well I did go. And it was pretty good - basically like a replay of the last time, only I was more prepared... in less shock for the kind of person he is, and he was a LOT nicer, happier, more relaxed, because he knew I wasn't going to hound him or run after him, and he had done a lot of "working out" of his pain (mainly by drinking himself stupid with his Caribbean guy friends I think, lol).
AND he noticed that I had lost a LOT of weight (he said)... which was a nice surprise - I think he thought I looked great, although he tried not to put much emphasis on it, but he was shocked and his eyes lit up, and his face was a bright smile when he saw me, and he had that mischievous way about him that I missed. I played hard to get and nonchalant (mostly), and he kept bringing up my male friends (weird), and talking about the future (like I would see him in these certain clothes in the winter, etc), asking me about a certain outfit, dancing with me (he never dances)... giving me compliments, that I was THE sexiest girl he had ever been with, how the doorman was in love with me, how he was so proud to be seen with me, etc.... granted it could all have been to get me into bed, but who knows. *shrug*. I left cool and collected, didn't give it ALL up (not all, lol), although I did spend the night, and got a picture of him in case I never see him again, to remember him by...this time it will be easier... I know anything that keeps him from contacting me is ALL HIM. I was the sweetest thing ever, and kept it together. If I don't surpass any woman in the world he's ever met after that, I don't know how it's possible. We listened to rasta/reggae music all night, watched the Barack Obama story... all things we both feel passionate about (ideals)... he's not going to find another girl like me in this town... I think he knows I'm special. All of my beers were still in the fridge from the last time I was there WEEKS ago. BTW I looked phenomenal. He even took pictures of us in the bathroom mirror - how goofy is that?

 

As usual, you presented the forum with WAY too much information.. And it is honestly disgusting that you are so conceited. However, best of luck with this gentleman and you will get what you cast your bait out for.

 

good to hear! about no alcohol that is. something about that stuff lowers inhibitions, most of the time that's a good thing however in your situation that doesn't sound like that's what you were going for.

 

There is nothing here that I have said that can hurt me. If I thought I looked great, there is nothing wrong with saying so. He looked wonderful too, for that matter. We make a fantastic looking couple. Guys say I am gorgeous in front of him, girls say he is gorgeous in front of me. Whatever. Your saying it is disgusting just shows bitterness on your part. As far as the detail goes, I just like to describe things. So what. Keep sipping on that haterade, and then keep telling me how I should love myself. I left there feeling even better than I did 3 weeks ago. I can deal with him not calling the same as he did before, yet I feel EVEN BETTER about things and about myself and my ability to deal with him (or any other men). Nothing has gone wrong. Ball is in his court. I will keep doing what I am doing. Win win for me.

 

I figured after nearly two years the right and polite thing was to meet him to talk, but it was the same old crap that I KNOW will never change, so I left. No sex with the ex for me LOL. BTW I agree about alcohol, I do my drinking with my 2 closest girlfriends and wallow. But I have past that phase and prefer to blog and kick punching bags

 

Mirror , mirror on the wall..........

 

As Rasta would say... "Loving yourself is the greatest love of all..." - lol. I used to want to choke him when he said that. Now it makes sense with you throwing all of these sour grapes at me. :smt006

 

the best wine comes from sour grapes.

 

Two from the embittered fold I see.

 

Does this gentleman know that you refer to him as Rasta?

 

Yes, he does. He likes it - he's the most Rastafarian-proud/ Caribbean-proud, black-proud guy you have ever met. He calls himself chocolate, "rude boy", and sometimes the n-word and I have to ask him to stop sometimes (with the n-word). He is political and aggressive about it. Stop being a politically correct white schmuck in my relationship. I'm surely NOT going to tell you his name on a public forum. YOU know nothing about him. I DO.

BTW LOL at "gentleman" - I've heard that same euphemism used on the news for the suspect of a crime who happened to be a minority or was suspected to be a minority, such as "the gentleman came up to me with a gun and told me to take all of the money out of the cash register". :smt043