Good Things about being SINGLE

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by stiletoes, Aug 27, 2012.

  1. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    Relax babe... She didn't put you on blast but pointed out a inconsistency in your posts... Believe me if she was trying to start shit this thread would of exploded already. Now come here for some loving.

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  2. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Whole heartedly agree.

    He does only know the number and that is because he asked her and she decided to be completely honest with him about it. She never gave him details. He respected that she had been honest and didn't lie about the number. I know that she is a very loving wife and mother and fantastic friend and that is all that matters now.. And this is for TDK,,,,,,,,,,,, you said something about her being all used up before she choose a black man,,,,,,,,,,,, guess what, 90% of her lovers were black...

    Hi Arch,,, this made me giggle,,, I do want a wonderful man, but I intend on being happy whilst I am single in the meantime. That is all... ;)
     
  3. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    If you've been with 100 guys before you're ready to settle down with me you're all used up in my opinion. Sorry kid its reality
     
  4. 4north1side2

    4north1side2 Well-Known Member

    I see why guys feel this way... You feel like the woman looks at you as a sucka and is just plain settling with you...
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Not even that. Its more like you think so little of your body and your health that you'll share it and risk it with just about anyone. How can you look at someone like that as special. She was looking to love the first dick that didn't bust a nut and runaway.
     
  6. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    No need to say sorry, doesn't effect me..... You are entitled to feel the way you do and have the opinion you do... All that matters is that she is happy now and her past didn't effect it.... Look at me,,,,,,,,,,,,, practically a virgin compared to her and I am single........ So what does that say............. hmmmmmmmm :smt102
     
  7. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    And to continue my neg rep... "and the only reason you hate women so much is because you are such a low quality specimen of manhood yourself."

    Other men don't put as much time or trouble into putting women down, for example, Sonny Dragon or whatever his name is now. He doesn't have to. He is confident for numerous reasons, many of which remain unspoken, or infrequently spoken of, which I find very charming. Which is why I like him so much - he is sex on a stick to me. You, on the other hand, talk more than a woman, which is highly off-putting and unattractive, probably more than any other quality than I can think of.

    If my knee was near your mouth, you would have no teeth.
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    That you make piss poor decisions in the men you date. Truthfully there is no reason for a woman as smart, sweet, and beautiful as yourself to be single. It comes down to bad choices. There are plenty of men who would LOVE to settle down with you so its not for a lack of options so the only thing I can conclude is piss poor decision making when it comes to men.
     
  9. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Thank you for the compliment :smt058...

    I completely get your point,,,, it wasn't me it was them..... bahahahahha :grin:


    Now just agree and continue on..... hehehehehehehe
     
  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Lmao why don't you complain to your man.... oh wait that's right he banged you out and threw you in the toilet like a used tissue lol. I don't put women down, I actually love a lot of women I just don't worship them. Unlike a lot of thirsty ass dudes I actually have someone in my life. I don't have to fantasize about finding a ww to be with, its not some abstract fetish to me. You want to talk about respect? You talk about black men like we're a bunch of walking dildos just dying to get any attention from any ww willing to look at us twice. Your agenda is clear so keep entertaining us with your fabricated bullshit stories. Dance puppet dance.
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Whether this was truly a joke or not it pretty much sums up why so many beautiful women your age are single. Take responsibility for the shit choices my friend. You'd be married in a year.:cool:
     
  12. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    LOL, I do take repsonsibility for the choices I have made in my life, but I don't regret a single one of them, I learn from them...... I am probably at my happiest that I have been in many years...... I don't harp on the fact that I am single, nor do I harp on wanting a partner/husband. I just accept it. I am happy and know how blessed I am in life....

    And you Sir, are very blessed with a wonderful love... awww I love love..
     
  13. blackbrah

    blackbrah Well-Known Member

    Ha no. I meant the shape of head of the penis, especially in circumcised me, allows it to be less prone to infection, compared with a vagina, which keeps fluids in it after sexual contact.

    You hear incidents of people getting infected with STDs but in many instances it is the person who is being penetrated who caries the disease. Of course, the increase of sexual contact with an infected person increases the more sexual encounters increase, but as an example, a uninfected man who has sex with a woman who has HIV has a very low risk of contracting the virus due to how the virus is transmitted.
     
  14. blackbrah

    blackbrah Well-Known Member

    Ah THIS in its entirity. Women ARE biologically designed to be selective in the mate they choose as I mentioned. When women say the encountered bad men, after a while it becomes redundant because you have to think...these women are picking these bad men for some reason. They shun the stable guy for the rebellious man, etc. Same old song.

    Now, both men and women do get into some destructive relationships at times and make poor choices. No one can avoid that and we are all entitled to mistakes, but if a continuous pattern occurs then it is a problem. But if a person learns and grows from it, that's the beauty of life and who am I to say what is the right or wrong path to your heart's enlightenment? Just my opinion!
     
  15. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    Ironically, the 3 uncircumcised men that I have happened to have had long-term relationships with were also the least promiscuous of the whole bunch. Interesting.
     
  16. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member



    My virginity is all yours... just waiting on you to come and claim it.
     
  17. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    I'm actually going to agree here. While I truly *don't* want specifics of past encounters, if I were to find out they numbered 100 different partners, I'd just have a very difficult time accepting that.

    Recently a female poster here said that she could not be with a man who'd been with a prostitute. Not calling Curleys friend a prostitute, but how is that any different? It's something from the guys past that the poster is unwilling / unable to accept... yet nobody lashed out on her, because she is accepted as a poster who posts out of logic and tact. While TDK usually always completely lacks tact, he is one of the more logical and candid posters on this forum.

    TDK and I both come from that "why do good women waste their time with guys who don't deserve them" school of thought. Frankly, out of 100+ guys I'd bet dollars to donuts that at 98% of the guys are complete assholes who truly did not deserve her. While I don't worship pussy (because I've eaten 100%), I certainly do not want to follow 100+ assholes into one... I'd like to think the woman I do end up settling with has distributed it with some discretion.
     
  18. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    They were ashamed of their ugly dicks.
     
  19. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    I don't think uncircumcised dicks are ugly. God made them that way. Circumcision is genital mutilation and you lose some sensation besides. I would
    never do that to my baby boy. Have you seen a youtube video of a circumcision? It's horrific!!
     
  20. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    For starters, there is no such thing as god. But, for arguments sake, lets say it does exist. We 'mutilate' our bodies as you put it by becoming obese, marking with tattoo's, piercing our ears, noses, nipples and nuts, getting breast implants, etc.,. etc.,. 'Mutilating' our bodies... it's what we do.

    If there's one thing my mother did right in my life... she cut the neck off the sweater. Make believe god bless her for that.
     
    Last edited: Aug 29, 2012

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