Why wouldn't you be in a polygamous relationship?

if shelter, companionship, food, security, excitement, lack of boredom is taken care off...
you can work to supplement the income/network, but there would be no struggle (because as the money accrues and more success is gained, might entertain having like 100+ kids...no joke)

females, who have been interested thus far are "single" moms.

might adopt thats what happens.

and the objective to create kids, nurture them and groom them and send them across the world as one of my blood ambassadors of success

 

No freaking way could I handle seeing the man I love, with all my heart, with another woman. Food and security are easily taken care of with just one partner. Companionship should be a given in any relationship (otherwise, why are you with them?), but on top of that normal people have FRIENDS.

Excitement? Umm...well, if you need an extra wife/husband or two to make sure your life doesn't get boring, then you're a sad person to begin with. I don't know about other people, but I don't need a husband to have an exciting life.

Having 100+ kids? Are you fucking serious? Only a man would say something that stupid. Talk about selfish. I'm sure those kids will get plenty of time with their "loving" father. :smt011

Polygamy might seem ok for some, but for me, it just seems selfish and greedy.

 

Well, after the zombie apocalypse - we will probably have to do just that. Until then. Meh.

 

who wants a second man ..no way one is more then enough to make your life bad no need a second

 

One or two could be useful if they didn't get in each other's way. I wouldn't appreciate excess females about or excess children to cause noise or unnecessary trauma/drama, especially when I was the new frontier. It would be just a bit annoying if someone had to keep going off to care for other duties. I would find the most useful person and keep him on. The other one, I would leave him be as an extra and/or supplemental individual. It's all very understandable and unique.

 

As expensive as shit is most kids dont know their father if theres two kods in the house let alone 100. Btw I dont appreciate the "only a man would say this" comment. Other women have expressed liking the idea of polyandry or pologyny.

 

No way I'd be able to deal with such a relationship;my ex cheated on me once and that's why he belongs to my past now.When feelings are involved it's too painful to know that the man/woman you love is with someone else too,nothing exciting in this imo

 

Simple. I don't share women.

 

I have ambitious and aggressive goals, the average person cannot comprehend. I know one woman, cant handle 100 kids, especially when I have money for it...what am going to have 2 or 3 kids...and they get older, they become bashful and resentful and I brough them to the world...or have 5 kids with 4 baby mothers...no. Its a family fold, we all in team, and my offspring will be designed to win. This isnt average relationship. This is Castle / personal housing complex somewhere, buncha offspring...have them expand the family name. Doctors, teachers, transportation, careers, etc

Some kids are made just because...work takes time from raising kids...if I had a hall room, all the offspring will be there, and they get hugs, before going to bed. Structure and parameter, can make things happen. Walmart has 3 million employees...what a 100 kids

 

this is beyond cheating

its not behind you back...

there love is there equally...this is for the offsprings.

 

Yes, I agree.

And the rest...is very true.

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For some reason, I see Horton hears a who, say goodnight to all his kids in that nursery.

 

Been there and done that in my younger years. That time of my life was basically flings to have fun with, nothing serious or long term. Long term back then was about 72 hours or so and then move on to someone else who I found to be of interest.

I know its not for me today. I have experienced enough in relationships to know that I NEED stability and most of all honesty!!! No matter what, my mate and I must know each other mentally and physically, not just know what we like or admire about each other.

If the heart is not in it as in my case in the past (I never felt love for any woman except one so far) then multiple relationships, simultaneously or not, are nothing more than a way to spend my free time. Better said... a distraction from reality for a moment or two, nothing more than that.

 

Somebody has been watching a lot of Big Love:smt043

 

also sister wives...

at the same time...they all wives works and in the recent episodes do not live in the same location...

the proposed plan, working would be optional, and there will be a main residence...a home with a home...

 

:smt026

just birth 'em
:smt072

 

Either you just want to start a cult, or you're living in fantasy land...wait, it's probably both! :smt005:smt005

Freaking ridiculous!

 

I have a friend who's a polygamist. He and his wife have been looking for a third for awhile. They've also had a few women live with them on and off to see how things pan out, so it's already something they've done.

They're also conservative Christians.

For them, the decision to expand their family made sense for a variety of reasons. I won't go into them here, but some of them have to do with health and longevity for the wife, and having been through marriages before their current one.

For them, it's something they're invested in, and I give them a lot of props for that. Could I be in a polygamous relationship? Well, I think possibly I could, if it was handled the right way, and if it's what everyone truly wanted. I don't get jealous easily, and I believe that a person's capacity to love is truly endless if you're open to the possibility.

Does it mean I'm running out there to seek one out, or that it's my ultimate goal in life? No. It just means that if I was faced with it, and it felt right, I probably would do it. I'm not closed off to the idea. I also think it takes a certain level of emotional maturity that many people aren't willing to give because so many folks are all about 'ME ME ME!! NOW NOW NOW!!' and those relationships don't lend themselves to that kind of attitude at all (and no, I'm not saying that if you're monogamous, you're in any way immature or anything like that, before someone gets their knickers in a twist).

I think that it's interesting the kinds of love that humans have the potential for, and I don't see anything wrong with expressing that in a manner befitting your beliefs -as long as it doesn't hurt or kill anyone else.

 

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