Lmao are you serious. I was being sarcastic. Damn do these people have nothing better to do than police me lmao. Btw did no one mention all the race baiting during the Treyvon Martin thread or is it only race baiting when its someone from the opposite race? Truly looking for your input. Don't want to step out of line big daddy
Well who knows, maybe it took this to make him realize, 'wtf did I do?!.' We all fuck up in life and he basically got a second chance and maybe he realized, 'Ok God, I'm going to start being an effin man and father and husband from here on out."
Still havent gotten it have you? You dont kiss female ass for online brownie points and you have pictoral evidence that you actually have a beautiful white girlfriend. Now these 2 things piss some people off so you are not exactly flavour of the month in their eyes which automatically means you are being watched like a hawk by dad ready to smite you if you dare cross the line, imaginary or not.
I assume she is still suffering of all that feelings she was going through, shooting, fear, panic, death, joy that they all survived , attention by media and what her eyes have seen, what her ears have heard. She and her emotions must be totally confused. Maybe she loves him, maybe she won't love him anymore in a few weeks, when she reminds the situation, when she was left and what can happen next time, when she is in an emergency (not in a shooting, but in a situation she could need help by him)- will he leave her again? That is their problem in future..and he, can he feel as the man, when he remembers what happened?
There's others that do the same.. It's not straight all across the board. People get into a habit no? It does not matter if some residents don't play by the rules and it doesn't matter that some do. I have a friend who is very dear to me and he loves me to death. But he always tells me that I can't fight on the priniciple of things. It doesn't matter if it's a what's good for the goose is good for the gander.. If you happen to highlight a persons behavior based on unfair principles...they don't acknowledge that that might be a personal flaw on their part. They just hate you because you've rubbed their own inadequacy in their face. That goes for all people..myself included.. So there.
Or its possible that he could learn from this situation. I wonder if she had run would people still have the same attitude about it or is it understood that a man is required to sacrifice his life for his woman. This situation has opened up a lot of interesting dialogue.
No one is being watched like a hawk. When someone reaches that point their account is restricted or banned. Watching someone is unproductive and a waste of time. There are no babysitters on this site. I think everyone knows this by now. Or should.
So then why are some posts so much more disruptive then others. You warned me about race baiting but others have done far more than I have but never warranted a public warning against it. Just curious. Feel free to ignore it if you like. I suspect it comes down to who complains not what's actually being said.
No. No one mentioned "all the race baiting during the Treyvon Martin thread" when it occurred. I would have resolved that too. If any member is having an issue using the report option, send me an email and I'll look into why it isn't working for them.
When you say done far more than you have. Define that. Far more than what? Who are the members that have done far more than you have but never warrant a public warning?
Now I have a dilema because I ain't no snitch. Hood rules and all lol There are a lot of black people need to get it together posts made by many posters. Its been man far more frequently than the three or four times I've done it in the last week. I don't want to call them out but if it happens again I'll bring it to your attention if I catch it. Or is it only race baiting when the person making the comment isn't of the same race as the critique being made?
It's race baiting if the person who reported the post thinks it is, based on their judgment, and I confirm it, based on mine. That's pretty much how the reporting system works.
Maybe he learns out of this situation and I don't say his life is finished, but to expect that you always have a second chance in life is definitly wrong. Faults have different weights, some faults can be excused, others not. Depends on the people, what is worse in their eyes. Women normally love their men because of what they do and say, not because of their sexy ass and love has to do a lot with respect and that I am proud of him, because in my eyes he is a great man. But if something like that happens I lose my respect and then there is no way to go back. And to wonder, what have happened, if the woman has done, what he was doing, is an unnecessary question, we will see and read it, as soon as it happens and we have a thread about it. At the moment the man is the topic, not the woman
Sooo, Instead of being adult and call people out where appropriate, you use extremely tragic threads as your vehicle to pontificate? And on top of that, you use the "hood rules" excuse when you are whining about your predicament when you come across as a race baiter And doing the exaclty same thing as the people you accuse (even if it is sarcastic - why do you think answering wrong with wrong is a good idea???? You just make yourself look worse than the people you try to call out, regardless of your intentions)(or maybe you just are out to stirr, not sure anymore) Difference between the people you have an issue with and you, is that you - intentionally use unrelated, extremely tragic threads as your personal tool to pontificate. It even more distasteful than people posting ignorant dumb ass comments. Adults would address it there and then, not use such tragedies as their vehicles - how insensitive is that. Why are you suing different rules for you than the rules you use for others? It baffles me that you can be so smart in some threads and so... in others... it makes no sense *scratching head* YOu know I consider you a friend so dont go there. Have you not realized that you are involved in every inflamed thread?? How come? is it everybody elses fault or do you have something to do with it? I'm not flaming you here, I wondering if you have lack of self insight or if you really at times are just instigating on purpose?
I don't think its unnecessary just curious. It speaks to how we truly feel about gender roles and ties into what Petty said earlier. We live in a society that pushed for equality and I wonder how we'd feel as culture had a woman done the same thing. It interests me.