IR Book:Swirling

I ranked white women third, but by your logic, every male on here should vote #1 for white women to justify their reasoning for being on this site.

Accepted. Also, we have to think about the family of the other person as well. But I understand your POV.

 

LOL, I think Mikey bought into that website about black men not uplifting black women, doing them dirty, etc.

Maybe Mikey is the type who might feel guilty if he dates white women over black women. Who knows.

Can't make everyone happy Mikey.

I understand what you are saying here, but remember only you can decide what is best for you in the end. No one else.

You might run into women of all races, including black that despise black men, conversely you will have those that love black men, so take it for what its worth and keep perspective of the wider world out there.

The things you encounter on blogs are a miniscule fraction, a grain of sand on the beach to the wider world out there. Just remember that around these subject matters bro.

Sounds like you also have a conflicted situation with your family input as well that affects your views.

 

Mmmmm...nope. You're stretching it though.

I'm not complaining about your preferences. But after your comments, I question as to whether you love them for yourself or that your parents may create a struggle with you.

Either way, you're still a baby. You have so much to learn. And please, take Ra's advice.

 

Ok, understood. Replying to what you said in bold, I actually don't know how I'd feel because I've never experienced it. I use this site just to do some research and analysis so I know how to handle things when I get into an opportunity to meet women. Some of the posts on that site really tested the limits of my intellect because they're giving accurate reflections on humanity in general. For instance, I don't think we can really say that this particular post is garbage. This was from the article with 49 comments.

Maybe I have a lot to learn, but I've already learned about you. I've learned that you have some gross fetishes and that might be a turn off to women (regardless of race) once they've found out.

 

I wished that book supports IR for both BW and BM to date,interact,and maybe marry not just the BW standpoint.

 

That's mostly a black woman's game. I guess a lot of them are nuts. And delusional. Black women being subordinate within the black community? LOL! Is there any other community in the world in which the females are overall in a better position than the men (employment numbers, targeted consumers, college educated, heads of households, most influential voters and church members) as they are in the African American community? Laughable.

 

Well, not justify but still....look at the damn title of the site, sir. My IR hookups have been more so with non-white women but I'm smart enough to realize the driving focus overall of this site is clearly on WW/BM.

 

Dude, black women don't often write anything that deals with any standpoint/viewpoint other than their own. This definitely includes books about IR.

 

Wait, a "Race Woman"? One angry sounding heffa.

 

I am left with the distinct feeling that it's all a smokescreen and has more to do with a basic grudge of "white beauty standards" being prevalent in society.

Many of these individuals tend to dwell on the notion of how black men put white women on a pedestal and worship them in our society. They even have a thing against light skin black women being pursued by black men.

It just comes across as an envy of other women, nothing else.

My motto is get in where you fit in, whatever works for you, because you better believe that is what I do and no one can make that decision for me, but myself.

Its the way it is and always will be.

LOL, just the kind of foolish individuals to stay far away from, when people start speaking like that you can tell the bitterness is entrenched in their attitudes and mentality. Not a healthy place to be.

A confident and secure person goes about their business void of an axe to grind or agenda about who to love.

 

I know... HORRIBLE. She is bitter and nasty, and any man of any color would be well advised to stay clear of her.

 

His mind is too malleable. There are too many "experts" on the internet waiting for weak minded people. They have a pipeline to put thoughts in his head that he obviously will never question. :smt069 If all it takes is a few articles to make you give up what you want then well.........

 

You'd think after his solid background at community college he'd be a mental giant.