Let's Hear From The Exes!

I was very surprised when I came on this forum and I saw that there were the Exes of Black men.

What surprised me the most is that these women did not give up on Black men like some of their white counterparts might have done.

I find that very commendable.

I wish therefore to ask a question:

Even though it may not have worked out with your Ex why have you Still decided to be interested in Black men?

 

That is a very silly question. Obviously because one BM does not represent the mass collective.

 

Wow, 5 threads in 4 days since you joined. Uncle Dre ain't got nothing on you, lol. Carry on...

 

Sigh....

 

Exactly. You can't judge an entire group of people based on the actions of a few.

 

Oh, for fuck's sake...

 

:smt042

 

Hmm

Wasn't trying to be silly-I was just trying to find out why!

You have good point about the whole "mass collective" thing-I agree with that but too bad other white women don't think like you.:arrow:

 

Hmm

Discussion is something to do.:arrow:

 

Correct

Correct but not every white woman thinks like you.:smt083

 

What's the Matter? Don't Worry!

What's the matter? Don't worry it's a good question to ask.:!:

 

Would you stop trying to be with white women if a white woman hurt you or broke your heart or whatever?
Is the only reason you're interested in being in a relationship with a white woman because of the success of your buddies' marriages with white women?
If a chic with a certain eye/hair/skin color became your ex, would you swear off women of that eye/hair/skin color? You don't think that question is silly? Because it's the same, really, as what you asked.
I mean, I do know people who are ridiculously beyond stupid like that. Blame a whole race of people because of what one or two or a few people of that race did or whatever.

 

True, but you didn't ask every white woman...you asked the women of this forum and we've given you the answer.

 

Thank You!

This is exactly why I posted this topic so that white women who may have failed relationships with black men won't think about giving up on a whole race of people just because of one broken relationship.

Not everyone is bad in an entire race. There are the good and the bad and you cannot write off a whole race just because of a few that were bad.

Yet not everyone thinks like you and some white women write off ALL Black men because of one who did not work out.

That does not mean that other Black men will not work out just because of one bad experience.

Then again some do not have something called common sense to see this point which you certainly seem to have.

 

True But...

True But I do not need to ask Every white woman...I just need to ask the ones that are sensible and I think this forum has those who are sensible on it.

 

You do realise that you're posting this thread on a site that is for people who are either in interracial relationships or want to be, don't you? I mean...this topic may make sense on a different site, but to post this on this site is ridiculous. If we'd sworn off black men, we wouldn't be anywhere near this forum.

 

you are extremely fixed on race/nationality. Would you just take this out of your mind and think about men and women....

 

That's Exactly...

That's is exactly the kind of opinion I want to hear


You need to apply your comments about what is "ridiculous" to the white woman who has given up on Black men because of a previous encounter and believe me they are out there.

So...

Posting this topic is meant for them to think differently that regardless of the past they can find another Black man again and not just give up on a whole race.:smt084