Since the majority of you folks are single and picky...

I will go in ------------------ are you coming?

 

im in

 

"The one" for someone isn't a myth. It can happen and for the most of you I hope it will.

Different relationships have different values, depending on the inner bound two people feel. It can fail, because of unknowledge or lack of experience or tolerance or it was just the wrong time. It also needs not to hold your whole life, sometimes it's just for a period of time of your life

I also think it has nothing to do with being picky..what sense does it make to be with someone, when I already see at the beginning, it makes no sense?

Maybe I have the luck to feel this kind of unique emotion again, maybe not. But at least I know that I've experienced once

 

No one disagrees there isn't 'the one' for any of us. My argument is, there's no such thing as 'the ONLY one'.

The difficulty is it's extremely unlikely you'll meet all the potential mates in life with whom you are highly compatible with AND they have that same desire to be with you.

If someone hits on 70-80% of you key criteria, IMO that's a huge win.:smt023

 

Eh I don't think I will truly be alone in the long run, but I guess the mindset if you are is to seek happiness in other aspects of life. A relationship doesn't make you and you have a lot of things to offer this world. Love is crazy man.

 

I just think that the second you hang your hat on the idea that your happiness rests with someone else...one person in particular...is the second you've managed to ensure you will be alone for the rest of your life, or worse, attached for the wrong reasons.

I hope to meet someone, but don't believe there's ONE person out there who will be the sun, the moon, and the sky. They aren't. It doesn't work that way. "The one", I think, is one of many potential people, and who I happen to meet at a certain time in my life. I don't know if that makes sense.. my brain is mush from doing homework. :smt021

 

Doesn't matter to me. We all end up dying alone anyway. :smt102