Nice Guys

A man with sense AND confidence (not to mention your kinky streak)...don't make me fall in love...!

 

This indeed bro

Then inevitably will follow the all men are dogs, no good, etc, etc.

Some of the most possessive, controlling dudes are one's who treat women like utter shite. Her actions, locations, activities, company she keeps are clocked and if it is not on point she might catch an ass whooping.

So those qualities have nothing to do with being nice. Assholes will smother a woman to death, literally.

Frankly what is even categorized as "nice" It can run the gamut.

Is respect being nice, is politeness being nice, is romance being nice, is thinking your partner is equal being nice. See how perplexing that can become and overlap.

It all goes back to personality and honestly many women don't know what they want it seems.

I say just live your life and do what you want, just don't come at me saddled with the drama of you prior relationships. Because I'm not the asshole you dealt with before.

I don't do drama and despise drama filled, argumentative women, always looking for a conflict as a means of affirming you indeed care about them.

I like my sanity and peace of mind and love my women chillaxed.

Take that shit to Dr. Phil or Drew.

 

That is why I don't set out to prove myself to any woman, I find one's that share the qualities I am attracted to and let the chips fall where they may.

The worst thing a man can do is put on a veneer for a woman, because eventually his true self will come out down the line.

Whether you are a caveman, meathead, abuser, alcoholic, asshole, lame, square, nerd, geek, pushover, simp, mangina. It all will come to the surface at some point.

Not everyone is meant for everyone.

We all have different experiences in life that have shaped us and our mindset.

The best thing one can do is find a woman who can appreciate you for yourself, if she can't keep it moving. Not meant to be.

If she can't acknowledge and appreciate the core qualities in you as a man then she is not the one.

Just like I myself would not have any iota of interest in a substance addicted, confrontational, loud mouthed, aggressive, uneducated, classless, funky, disrespectful woman.

 

WRONG. Both of you have it WRONG. You and the so-called "DK" whatever. Hate to say it, but GQ, I am beginning to think that you are a whole lot of talk. Besides that, you are a misogynist. Almost everything you have said here is contradictory.

 

W.T.F. are you talking about.

I take it you are the argumentative, drama filled type that is highlighted.

Wrong you say - In what regards. Don't just make hit and run comments.

Misogynist, moi. Its easy to throw out names and call a guy a misogynist but what is stated in my comment that is misogynistic. You might want to look up that term again.

Contradictory in what way. I stated I don't do drama, don't care for it and avoid women who are filled with it.

You seem like a hit dog hollering.

Is it confusing for you that a guy doesn't like drama and avoids women of that ilk. Trust they exist. Not every guy tolerates b.s.

Your response is mind-numbingly perplexing to say the least.

If you think I'm misogynistic then I would love to see the kind of guys you interact with and how they treat you. You're on some serious shit today or something. Better check that bull.

Whatever the deal is with you and TDK, keep me out of that nonsense and drama on here. Don't have time for silliness.

 

Hold up for good measure I went and read some of your recent comments on here, since I wasn't around here recently and you are whacked in the head shorty.

Some of the shit you are saying requires one to toke up on some top quality kine bud.

The schwag must be eating your brain cells up.

The funniest is that you find the dude who fathered 30 kids to be akin to an alpha male and I quote

Are you freaking serious. What planet you dropped in from.

Then you went into a litany of rancorous suppositions about white women and black men critical of this buffoonery that has fucked the black community up.

Your priorities are straight jacked up in mentality.

I mean you are neg repping me and calling me entitled because I said I would not have any iota of interest in a substance addicted, confrontational, loud mouthed, aggressive, uneducated, classless, funky, disrespectful woman.

Woof, woof, hit dog hollers indeed.

What don't you think women have standards, expectations and qualities that they look for in a man. Is that being entitled or is it that you don't have any standards judging by your opinions of Mr. 30 kids alpha male.

 

If I never hear the word "ilk" again, it will be too soon. :roll:

 

:smt102

Its not that serious actually.

I'm far more offended by your mental capacity to be inordinately silly in your comments.

 

I've been away for several months, and have noticed the decline of the intellectual quality of your writing.

Also, I do not approve of anyone having 30 children. There were other arguments behind my defense of him. You with your supposed logical mind should be able to suss those out.

 

I see only one person throwing a hissy fit here.

 

Glad to see you're paying such close attention to the intellectual quality of my commentaries.

On the other hand I could care less why you defend a minstrel show like that clown.

Your standards are pretty low in such areas, so that speaks for itself.

First off I was referencing your highlighting of the term "ilk"

Secondly, you come up in here like the Queen B, neg rep me and call me a misogynist which runs counter to everything I stand for in relationships and I will make sure your ass explains your tossing around of presumptuous accusations.

What on the other hand explains your foolish fits in commenting now that you have shown up here again. Wouldn't be mental issues by any chance.

Go back to arguing with TDK or whatever you do on here and call it a day.

 

Yep - somebody has his panties in a twist about some real life stuff and he's bringing it to the forum.

I for one, am pretty damn happy - I kicked anyone that didn't measure up to my standards to the curb a long time ago.

 

correct:smt023

 

Wish more folks would realize that Christine.

 

Dude why do you insist on pulling me into you argument. I dont use you as a deflection and I'd appreciate that you show me the same courtesy fam.

 

I realize fam.

 

Nice guys rock!

Fuck Yeah!
Lol

 

ROFL, at the time I was typing that I knew you would say that shit bro.

Here is the thing, I just wanted her out of my darn hair and figured steer her in your direction. Since she lumped my response to you into one of her crazy posts. i.e.

I don't know how you deal with that silliness she spews. I was just trying to ditch the chick on you since she mentioned you in the response. My bad, I hear you on that, shouldn't have to subject anyone to dealing with a mental case.

 

GQ is a misogynist?? REALLY? Please. :smt009. That's the LAST word I would use to describe him.