Women love nice men. Girls love drama and if you cant deliver youre too nice. If you're out of your teens still wanting a dude to "keep you on your toes" dont worry youll find him along with stress and heartbreak.
As far as romance being lame Jaycee, you need to stop messing with these lame dudes because any man who is really into his woman will romance her and do iylt right. This weekend Im gonna bathe and massage my girl while we play some smooth 90s r&b followed by some good lovibg abd a great meal out at a new Braziluan spot. Then bsck home for some more loving and a great night sleep.

 

idk i just want my to guy to act like himself, sometimes if they are too much like a hallmark card its annoying

 

I dont follow. Can you give an example?

 

Fuck the very soul and essence of this overdone discussion and every word posted in yon thread.

 

Damn son, I think this is the best post I ever read from you in my humble opinion...minus the stuff about Jaycee cause I have no idea what y'all are referring to lol

 

Very interesting take per your description. Never looked at it that way. What about the men who are badass who are also described as insecure, clingy and needy and possessive?

Addum: I think there's a very recent thread discussing this in depth, too. Its a good read, You may find more answers from members to your question there, too.

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?p=666840#post666840

 

You do have a point.

 

I'm nice and I never finish last. I don't cling nor am I insecure. Hell, I'm fly,, I'm Stizzy.

 

Lol

 

A nice guy is a guy who will come to meet his girl being fucked like crazy on his couch and will just look at both of them and walk out quietly without saying a word and i heard that shit can make the cheater feel guilty as hell.WELL i would smash the guy's head in with a baseball bat and kick the girl's ass to the curb so i guess i am not nice.

 

Women think nice guys are pussies.
Be a nice guy, but don't hesistate to punch a dude in his mouth.
That's what I do.

 

I've always liked you Sonny

 

nothing wrong with nice guys at all, but like some men say. i want a man on the streets and a freak in the sheets. lace that nice guy with freaking and we're all good

 

that's easy, it is all in the DNA

 

Agreed. There is a big difference between being a 'nice guy' and being a loser and a pussy.

My man is a nice guy, but he's confident, strong, protective and doesnt' take shit from anybody. I wuvs him. :smt049

 

I think some panties might have dropped last weekend when i did something...

 

Absolutely yes... Jaisee this.

What did you do?

 

Exactly, what did you do, Mr. Panty Dropper?

 

correct, what did you do? Tell us:smt047

 

I like you too bay....