Age differences bm-wf?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by blacklexus, May 14, 2012.

  1. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    younger women = plus for guys that want kids

    id think carrying around a baby when ur 20 is a lot easier than when ur 40



    not to mention this idea that women mature faster than guys

    a 30 year old guy is still thinking about playing in the NFL, or being an olympic anything...whereas a 20 year old girl is sitting around playing dollhouse, planning families and shit
     
  2. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    LOL Women must be a lot different in America. Hahahahaha!
     
  3. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    :p
     
  4. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    I think when the gap is too big, you don't have things in common anymore. To me, it becomes a father/daughter or mother/son relationship. I like younger men, but past 10 yrs, I feel we lose that commonality that we'd have if we were in the same age bracket.
     
  5. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Totally agree with this. My girl is 9 years younger than me and I love it.
    There's no pressure to knock her up next week or even next year. We can go at my pace which is 5 years from now minimum and she's cool with that. Just as long as we start before she's 30. If I dated someone my own age I'd have a chick with her hand on her hip tapping her foot look at her wrist watch giving me the "I don't have time to wait on you" look lol
     
  6. Sonny Dragon

    Sonny Dragon Well-Known Member

    I'm sure Bookworm is older than me, but I'd fucking pound that woman. Seriously.
     
  7. newblackman88

    newblackman88 Member

    I see nothing wrong with it, I am 24 and I see no problem datng a woman who is 10 or 20 years older than me.
     
  8. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    I have always seemed to attract younger men, although I get told I don't look my age so that might be the reason. I am forever taking out my ID to prove to guys my real age...

    I did however have a little bit of an issue with a guy early in a relationship who was 10 years younger then me because I felt bad, I have a brother his age, I really thought we should have been on two different levels, me wanting to settle down and he just wanting to party. But it was not the case at all, he was mature beyond his years, so lovely, probably more mature then the guys I had dated around my age. Even his family would say he is an old man in a young mans body.

    I have also dated a man 11 years older then me, turned out he was a woman collector and a heavy partier and not on my level at all (I am a home body mostly). A whole lot more immature then the younger man...
     
  9. newblackman88

    newblackman88 Member

    I think as long as it is legal and there is a mutual attraction and chemistry there then age shouldn't matter. I am more attracted to older women and would have no problem dating a woman in her 40s.
     
  10. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    I agree, it all comes down to the maturity of the couple and attraction... :D
     
  11. newblackman88

    newblackman88 Member

    Yes i think alot of young guys get a bad rep among women but alot including myself aren't players and stuff. I just want a nice mature woman who I can settle down with. :D
     
  12. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Hi, my name is Curleyblonde.... ;)
     
  13. newblackman88

    newblackman88 Member

    Nice to meet you I am NBM. :D
     
  14. donahhh

    donahhh New Member

    Younger men

    Age is just a number is the maturity is there.....I've dated men half my age and my age.....some of the older ones were less mature than the younger ones. Alot of benefits with a younger one too LOL
     
  15. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    hmm hmm hmm at older ww!
     
  16. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Hi my name is Curleyblonde :wink:
     
  17. APPIAH

    APPIAH Well-Known Member

    Contrary to what some people think not all older women are mature and not all younger women are shallow airheads. Examples of older women who are airheads are "tanning mom" and the other woman who left her infant kids in a car to go and tan, both of them were older women.
     
  18. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    nice to meet you! :smt025
     
  19. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    I am probably not old enough for you.
     
  20. buglerroller

    buglerroller Well-Known Member

    i doubt it. :)
     

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