Random Conversation 2.0

Seems that when a person's taken or whatever, others come out of the woodwork

Personally, I wouldn't be concerned if you were talking to some girl at a starbucks and nothing happened. You could just tell her that you were talking to someone at starbucks, but it wasn't a big deal (if it wasn't ). This is coming from a girl with mainly guy friends, and would expect to be trusted around a bunch of guys and not being suspicious of the girls a bf hangs with.

If something was to happen... could you say no? If you can, I don't think she'd need to know. If you couldn't say no, maybe a different starbucks if the other girl seems like a regular there. At least starbucks is everywhere, so the drinks are standard

That's just me though, she might want to know anyways.. or she could feel that she's somehow not enough for you, all depends. :smt102.

 

Would you want to know?

If she met a guy and vibed for 2 hours. And she thought he was really cute.

 

Well made point. Under other circumstances I would pursue things with that girl but I'm into my girl. Just really liked the attention and for me connecting with people is usually difficult so its really refreshing when it happens. How often do you get to talk to total strangers for such a long time. Things like that intrigue me. Funny how I've been going there for almost a year and not until I commit to someone does shit like that happen lol.
But to be on the safe side I think it would be smarter to write at the library from now on. I don't like to tempt fate lol.

 

Not really. She's a really pretty girl and I don't doubt she gets attention daily so unless something actually happens I don't need to hear about it. Policing her would only annoy her and drive me crazy. Lose lose.

 

Then you kind of answered your own question, maybe.

 

You're right just had to work it out out loud

 

I think I know why that is TDK.
Since you are with your girl, you seem to be at peace and more open minded. People notice when you are positive towards life and others and it attracts them.
If I was your girl I dont think I would want to know since nothing really happened. Just make sure things dont get too deep, so Nicole suggestions for another Starbucks was a good one imo. No need to risk what you have since it is obviously something special.

 

Amen sister

 

I hate unexpected visits- seriously

 

Me too, no matter how much I like the person

 

Hell yeah. I hate that too. I just wont answer the door.

 

be prepared at all times



yeah, i don't like it either

 

Neither do I. Especially if I don't know you. Forget it, leave me a note, I'll get back to you.

 

I was thinking it's my neighbour...Now I have 6 people here, coming extra more than an hour to drive, they have wine and food..I like them, they are funny..but, hell, I was in my pyjama already...shit

 

Yeah, i'll be prepared. Be prepared not to answer the door.lol

LOL I like the way you think.:smt023

 

Well if they traveled that far and had food and wine with them, i'll let it slide. But just to teach them its not cool to just show up like that. I'd make them wait outside while I got dressed.

 

:smt003