Generally I don't have much luck with women, but I keep hearing white women are more open to dating black men in certain places like Europe. I live in the states, but have traveled to Australia and some other places. And in Australia, they said white ladies like brothas there, but I found it to be the same as here. Even in the states there's alot of IR, but most of the white women I meet don't seem to want to get involved with black men. I keep hearing Europe is better for IR. London in particular. I think I read the UK is supposed to be #1 in the world for IR. Is this true? Do you think someone who usually doesn't have the best luck with white women would have better luck in Britain, or would it bee the same?
You have to have some degree of confidence, wherever you go. I wasn't 'getting' that vibe while reading your post.
You weren't getting the vibe that I'm confident? Why, because I admitted that I don't have the best luck with women? Just being honest.
There might be more too it than the whole colour/culture thing. Maybe it's just you personally they aren't finding attractive. And as I wrote that I realised it sounded insulting. I didn't mean it that way, just saying that there may be other reasons for you being unlucky.
No offense taken. And yeah I think you're right. I just thought about it the past few days. And there have been women of various races from different places to reject me, not just white women.
You're jumping from country to country looking for WW, presumably, to sleep with. To answer the question. Europe, in genral would be more open, but I hear Aussie women are very freindly. Maybe, it's your approach, too eager.
What part of Australia did you visit? What did you do while you were there? Regarding women, of any race, you make your own luck. How old are you? What do you look like? Do you workout? Can you carry on a decent conversation, are you a good dresser, do you have any interesting hobbies?
I've been to Sydney twice. Also Brisbane, Surfers Paradise, Gatton, Childers and Melbourne. To a smaller extent New Zealand and some places in S. America also have a reputation for women liking brothas, and I've been to those places too. Even here in the states, there are plenty of white/black interracial couples. Yeah I know. As I said I've thought about that the past week or so. I don't have a whole lot of luck with women in general. But just like most of the men on this forum, if I did, I strongly prefer white women or fair skinned women. But I don't have any of them in my life as more than acquaintences (not even close friends). I think at first I rationalized that the reason none of them want to be a part of my life is because of race. But after thinking about it and my experiences, I realized that it's probably not because of race, it is more than likely because most of those women aren't attracted to me personally. Because there have been black women and women of other races that have rejected me too. Thus I came to the conclusion, things would be the exact same in any other country as they already have been.
Canadian ww are also very open to IR. Just saying... You don't have to go all the way to Serbia when Vancouver is right out your back door.
Yeah, I've been there too. I used to go to school in Vancouver and I lived in Toronto twice. After college, I plan to do grad school in Toronto. Same thing there. Generally Canada is more integrated than the states and there are lots of interracial couples there too, but no luck for me.
Animal,I had been to Canada myself and I can't find one who likes brothers there. I think they are the same like it is in the States. As much as I praise WW from overseas and not getting success I have not given up. I have not been to Oz and I would do my upmost of not waiting for them to come to me. I lost my hookup there-a ex from Tasmania who has friends there. Now if I would ever go to Oz I had to start from scratch. Oh yes I had been to the capital city of Canada-I love museums. Still, I strive to go to Europe to find that WW there.
I met a few white women in Van and a few more in Toronto that are attracted to black men. I think it's more common in Toronto as there are more blacks in Toronto. In Vancouver there aren't that many blacks. I do agree though that most in any country will not initiate with they guy first.
How old is the op? Also plenty of women make the first move. It's pretty obvious to tell when a women is interested in you. All I have to say is be confident.
I'm 27. There have been a few women who I was attracted to that seemed like they were interested. Usually they already have boyfriends, or one of us is leaving town the next day, or something. But usually even if someone is mutually attracted to me, nothing comes to fruition in terms of dating, relationship, etc. I am confident. How come yall keep telling me that?
