how important is sex in your life?

its a great way to connect with a person
its fun
and you can do it multiple times in a day with out getting bored with it

 

I've seen too many of my friend's relationships fall apart because the ONLY thing that still worked between the couple was sex. Same thing with a guy I was dating... we connected at first, but after awhile even though we were still together, he'd only message me if he wanted sex. It didn't even seem like we were friends with benefits, let alone actually in a relationship . That's not how anything should be.

There has to be more than sex for a relationship to work, perhaps my opinion would be different if I considered sex with someone I wasn't dating. It's is great, but I'd be perfectly content with making out and cuddling. You can have sex with anyone, but it takes someone special for cuddling to feel 'right'.

I wouldn't say no to sex, but it's not a must either... could take it or leave it.

 

well will be at the bottom of my list at the moment but i guess
different time and situation in life can change but for now
it is not very high.

 

Sex, just to have it, is not important.

The wish to have Sex comes and goes with the man

Sex in relationship is the emotional glue, without it - both go their own way sooner or later,but if you evaluate sex too high, it's also boring and you've lost the time to discover other lovely attitudes of your SO.

I always see a relationship like a house, you need a secure ground (basis of finances and accordances in character), some pillars (one of them is sexuality, but also common experiences, common kids or projects), walls (love), a roof (future plans), some windows (jealousy and competitors) and and and

 

Very important.

 

This^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

This. Without good sex, the relationship won't last.

 

My husband and I (as everyone knows) are living in different countries right now, while his visa is processed, and we've been apart for a LONG time. It's not the sex that's keeping us together. The lack of sex is not tearing us apart (although we DO miss it). We're as strong now as we were before and, although we do feel like we're going to practically kill each other when we're together again, we are more excited about the fact that we'll be able to sit face to face with each other and just 'be'.

So, just for my man and me, sex is the least important part of our relationship.

I do feel, however, that, in a normal situation, if the sex is good the sex is not important. But, if the sex is not good or not happening, it becomes one of the most important things in the relationship.

 

Sex is demonic; I refused to be enslaved by it.

 

It's not that big of importance of me, blame the easy access to internet porn.

 

woah this thread wasnt started by me....why is it saying it is

 

Shame on you jaycece..
Always thinking about sex! Guttermind...

Tee-hee.
I joke of course. :lol:

 

le sigh well thats slightly inconvient lol

well u know us young adults if we aint thinking about sex, we're not thinking at all

 

Shit...I'm not a young adult and that still applies. I can find a way to make the most unsexual thing sexual.
It's really shocking sometimes and leads me to wonder what's REALLY wrong with me.
Lol...you know us girls..we can't really like sex.

 

......is there such a thing as an unsexual thing.....

 

TMI warning:

Take a toilet. What could ever be sexual about that?
Well let me tell you!
I recently did a thing with A where..um...to get over my..uh..gag reflex we sorta did that in the bathroom. While there is nothing remotely sexual about toilets..they will forever be linked to forced DT and always make me smile.

/tmi/

 

That's true. But how often should sex occur though?

For me, I'm thinking once a month, on a random day in every month.

 

Once a month? Shit son. I suggest you get married then. Eventually that's all you'll get.
(joking. I HATE that I have to clarify that now)