reread what i said. not once did i state "black people ain't shit" nor did i support that line of thought. i am addressing your combative nature and the way you are addressing people. not once have a said to follow and co-sign other's opinions. what i've clearly stated is, pull your socks up and address people in a mature fashion and find another way to get your point across.
I guess you gotta save the ammo for other unfiltered and uncensored forums, bruh there's a lot of shade(heh) thrown round these yon parts, but you really can't go hard at niggas though; feelings will be caught
Um, if you're gonna resort to calling out WW, you better get your ish straight. Your post makes no sense...so I looked back over his comments in here and I didn't find a food stamp reference in this thread. So why are you throwing shade on WW on a comment that doesn't exist here?
Now here's the interesting double standard on wwbm (not saying you support it) but if I were to make general statements about fat women or women of a certain age my rep page is filled with so much negative red you'd swear I was crip walking. Men on here are constantly downing black people as a whole and skate right on by and I understand that you guys have to see a complaint email in order to be aware but the shit happens so frequently on here how can you not be aware?
Just an observation but I think that they may honestly think that the men who constantly want to bring up how fucked the black community is and black on black crime are showing legitimate concern when other men here actually may see them as just shitting on other black people without offering up any legitimate ways of fixing the problems of the black community.
Fair enough but its interesting how certain women on here have np getting offended on the behalf of other women because they not only perceive what's being said as bad but actually pay attention to the reaction of those who are offended. The black men on here who are offended aren't given the same courtesy. One thing I'm learning about my girl so far which I really like is that she's so fair when it comes to this kind of thing. We had this long discussion about black women where to sum it up said she hated dating black men who seemed to have a deep disdain for black women. She thinks they have suffered enough and don't need that kind of hyper criticism especially from black men. She admits she may be white but its not like she can't see what's actually going on. Sometimes I wish I saw more of that element of understanding but I get not everyone is built like that.
I'm sick of doing your work for you. I looked back through this thread - it's not here. Tell me the post number? ...something!!!
Ok, I'll bite. For one thing, black men arguing or downing other black men is apples to apples. I am alot less likely to get in that conversation because I'm not a man or black. I dont always know when you guys are just ragging on each other or truly arguing (unless it gets nasty). A man attacking a woman for being overweight/older is apples to oranges to me just as it would be if I, as a WW would attack you, a BM. You cant identify with me. A similar woman can and I might be offended by her comments but not as much as I would be coming from a man. I don't know if that made sense. I'm up way past my bedtime. Us old people get tuckered out pretty easily. PS Did you ever notice that it's the men who do most of the attacking of either gender on here? There is rarely any infighting amongst the women.
This you respond to but not the one I actually made for you specifically lol. I guess I can see where you'd get offended. But me weight isn't specifically a female problem there are men on here with weight problems and like I said when its in the general sense I don't get the anger. Me saying something to you specifically is completely understandable though. The race thing is different and I get why you would stay out of it. Everyone can have weight problems but not everyone can have race problems and I guess the same could be said about gender. Actually the gender thing is how I personally bridge the racial gap. You not getting race things is like me not getting gender things. For example one of my exes could never understand why I was extra cautious driving in Greenwich, CT past a certain time in my old shitty car. I used to be terrified the cops would fuck with me. In her world that kind of shit just didn't make sense. Same thing with her and leaving the club or bar late at night and needing someone to walk her to her car. I never understood it because I'm not really concerned with being harassed or even possibly sexual assaulted so through understanding that its helped me have better relationships with people.
ches is spot on. i don't always step in because i don't want to overstep my mark. the men talking about black men / people issues, is something that i cannot relate to so, i observe and do not interfere unless someone cries foul, like iggy did.
It doesn't surprise me when a guy who's only dated one White woman dismisses real White women's opinions. That is, until he begs for it... :smt056 Make up your mind, will ya.