I never said you specifically Tarsh. I've seen that you're either fair or you just plain stay out of it but for things I've gotten infractions for are just plain silly at time especially when they aren't straight up insults but just interpreted as that. I've gotten it for just mentioning age and I won't even start on the bs about woman bashing. I make general statements that get me in trouble when I see people do the same thing. And if the whole point is to enforce the rules I don't get why others can say stuff to me but never get in trouble just because others think its deserved based on shit I did in the past. Rules don't work that way. Up hold them for all or none at all plus I'm not stupid I see where certain biases are. One particular member has the ear of the almighty and he acts according to her horeshit whims but at the end of the day this is just a time killer. Punishment is exacted by who likes who its not even handed. I won't be as crass as to name names but others have spoken about it in chat and on fb. That's why one can't take this shit seriously.
i agree that you've been singled out, but i also know that you stir the pot as well. i could be a hell of a lot stricter, and i've let some things go because mostly as adults we can sort things out with a clear head and a maturity that enables us to see each other's point of view & to agree to disagree. i don't believe i am biased when it comes to policing the site, but as i said previously, if i see you (you as in not YOU, fanny, but you as a collective) as a known troublemaker & you're getting some back, i will not always step in because i know that the person in question has either a) put themselves in the spot they're in because of a comment they have made; b) gives as good as they get & c) if they're truly feeling that they are being treated unjustly, they'll speak up.
Oh I agree I do get as good as I give look at me and Kuno its never ending lol. My only gripe is dont let thst shit slide then suspend me or give me infractions for far lesser offensrs if you can even call them that. Be consistant (not YOU etc etc) and fair about it because female members on here in particular will start it based on how they ferl about something I said weeks ago but are allowed to slide. But I dont want to make the thread about this. Thanks for addressing this though
Oh he'll make noise alright. Just a bunch of bullshit noise. He is nothing more than a race baiting hustler. And Jesse Jackson is worse. He stole money from the Rainbow Coalition to pay for his illegitimate child. Reverend my ass.
Poverty is definitely a reason I agree there BUT its also a culture thing. The Black community needs to shy away from this ghetto/thug culture that glorifies violence. Too many blacks are killing eachother at a very high rate.
Not sticking up for Iggy here, but why if a black person wants to see things better in the black community, or stop blaming everyone else for the problems within it, does that mean that he/she hates being black?? Paniro used to get the same crap - probably why he doesn't post any more.
Huh where did I say I hate being black? Stop putting words in my mouth. I have big concerns about the black community and some of you fools would rather just ignore it & post pics of white women's feet lol
None of what you said answered my question. Why does it mean they hate being black? And, not to be mean, but why do you always sound so angry? I hear it in so many of your posts.
Cosby is a brilliant man and cut him some slack, his son was killed because of black on black violence. He is unfiltered and will speak his mind. He wont spit some ultra PC garbage. Some folks cant handle the truth. ANd I love my people. My mother & father are my heroes along with the other relatives in my family. YOu seem like an ultra sensitive person that gets up in arms about anyone criticizing the black community. If someone speaks up about black on black crime, you'll scream racism, accuse them of being a white boy or call them an Uncle Tom. So predictable. I
I never really thought about white people as a community. Not like black people think of themselves as family. IMO, white people don't have the same feeling of commonality with each other. We share skin color. That's about it. Other ladies on here might disagree - I don't wish to speak for anyone but myself.
I like the fact that our people have overcome so much and are still making strides today BUT I think we can do better (thats all) And God forbid a black person have a different view point (oh the horror!!!) Now genius, go ahead and accuse me of being a white boy again. It never gets old:smt042
I'll pass, thanks. Did I say that? Am I really so old that I'm going senile and I don't remember saying that??
Whoa! Now I know I'm in good company because LAW called me one too. Wanna join our club? Even though you wouldn't be an official member of the People Who Law Blocked Club, like GQ, Bliss and I are.
Ummmm....dude Ennis Cosby was killed by a Russian duded named Mikhail Markhasev. No "Black on Black" crime there. It's important to get your facts straight,son. This is an example of what I mean by people here ripping your logic and opinions with ease when you post things.
Don't mess with me. One thing I don't tolerate is someone putting words in my mouth. If I said it, show me.
If you wanna know the answer to that, I know. There's a book written by Eugene Robinson that I'm writing for my term paper called: Disintegration - The Splintering Of Black America There are several different "social/economic classes" of blacks. This applies to both black men and black women. It is hard for me to explain why it is (specifically for our race), but that's just the way it is. Perhaps we could say that most white women in America are drawn to blacks who are in a certain "social/economic class", compared to other types of blacks they wouldn't give a second glance to. You can order the book on Amazon for just $5.00. http://www.amazon.com/Disintegration-The-Splintering-Black-America/dp/0385526547
ah yes my mistake. It was a Ukrainian immigrant that pulled the trigger. The fact remains, black on black crime is still a huge problem and Cosby has addressed it numerous times.