LOL, I see what you did there. Very true though you have to take people as they come, since we will never meet all of the folks in this world, to make blanket assertions is very short sighted and narrow minded. No better than a racist or a man/woman hater, homophobe, etc. Gotta deal with folks as they come based on their individual merits at the end of the day.
im just sayin ive seen quite a few posters here with anti WM agendas, and it shocked me the women we so highly seek are the product of WM/WW...plus some of them have white sons of their own
Just like if a black guy is with you and is going on and on about the ills of black women and seemingly you are like a secondary participant, I imagine some dudes, certainly I would get tired of hearing about those awful white dudes she interacted with.
ive brung this up on multiple occasions some of the women here have white sons... to instantly assume that they arent worth shit is like a slap in the face if i were a ww, id never consider anything serious if you couldn't respect my children that's some real bullshit
My chick has expressed how much she hates that. She doesn't like the kind of men who seem to have tried to use her to climb socially and who openly down the entire black race especially the women. It says a lot about you as individual but I that applies on any level. I don't mind a woman who prefers black men but going on and on about how weak and lame white men are isn't a way to keep my attention. I rather be bonded in our shared love not our shared hatred.
Great posts on this thread! My take on this is simple. We black men KNOW how to effectively interact with white women. Not bragging, but I tend to notice where white women are more comfortable and open when talking to us. We are very understanding and offer sound reasoning to our interracial counterparts. We bring common sense and sound logic to the table when in teracting with white women; whereas white males become a bit stubborn and want things to go their way. It's almost as if they a bit childish somehow. With black men, white women can be assured they will be able to see eye to eye with her companion and feel much better about her relationship in the long run.
you know, i never taken that vaunted sociological approach, that bm date ww to move up socially i can honestly say that if anything id think that it would take me down socially, given the fact that IR dating is somewhat still taboo in this country id have a lot more to lose than gain
Ive told her the same thing. If anything I think having an educated bf who comes from a decent family and has a good network of friends elevates her. But i do see where shes coming from. A lot of dudes do think that way like dating ww gives them some kind of white pass
Lolz, makes me cringe From where I reside, that thought is completely antithetical to reality, and niggas will realize it quickly
Seriously?!!! :smt081 I'm just making a comment!! The OP is saying that, in general, WM do this and BM do that, but what he's describing as WM behavior actually fits my last bf to a T and he's not white. If you call that being passive aggressive, whatever! To you, ANYTHING I say is passive aggressive. Take your own suggestion, birthday boy - put me on ignore.
