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Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bookworm616, Oct 7, 2011.

  1. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Thanks for elaborating it makes more sense now but like I said to Aliona. That guy had to have gotten positive reinforcement for that behavior somewhere else in order for him to have tried that. Just sucks that he didn't catch the hint with you.

     
  2. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    No problem. It's easier to make sense of something when you have the details.

    You do have a point there...he very well could have gotten a positive response for that crap somewhere before. That reminds me of a conversation I had with a male friend a few years ago about an idiot who approached me with a disgusting pick up line that I found offensive as hell. I was baffled by it & asked my friend why the hell a man would say/do something like, & he told me that it must have worked for him before in the past. He said that if a man finds something that works, even if it's just one time, he'll keep doing it hoping it'll work again...he also said that it could be that the guy just watches too much porn. lol

    Yeah, it sucks, but I'm glad it wasn't worse than what it was.
     
  3. Ches

    Ches Well-Known Member

    I hate to sound totally ignorant, but Tam, what is a Jethro??
     
  4. Daggerrrrrr

    Daggerrrrrr New Member

    lol I take it either thats his name or he's some country ass dude.:)
     
  5. Athena

    Athena New Member

    It can be hard to attempt to decipher our language, I completely recognize that.

    But I'd like to add that a smile is not just nervous or interested, it's also something that I do because I enjoy smiling. The reason I bring this up is because I am naturally friendly and willing to chat with people and everywhere I go there is always one creeper who thinks I'm interested and turns into a stalker type situation. In fact, it's already happened here in NY at my place of work/school. It really pisses me off because now I have to deviate my schedule to avoid him, and I have to be rude to him so he f&*ks off and leaves me alone. Why can't I just be friendly and smile and not have some creep stalk me as a result??? Damn it's bloody annoying.
     
  6. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Lol please tell me he's not black
     
  7. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    Well i have no problem with all this most of the time i am not approachable at all .. :D
    something that make everyone scared lol
    i dont look friendly either been told that a lot too ..
     
  8. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    Cause you're beautiful and men are attracted to beautiful.
     
  9. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    i'm jaiseeing jaisee cause i'm ina jaiseeing kind of mood and jaisee has a point
     
  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    PD3000 strikes again lol. I agree though. Part of being a hot chick is dealing with creepers. Sorry. You can always put on 50lbs and be safe lol
     
  11. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Ever watched The Beverly Hillbillies? There's a character on there named Jethro and he's well...stupid and could never get a clue! Here's an idea of how he is...

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  12. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    LOL! No worries, Ches...I've been asked that quite a bit over the years. In my smart ass language it's a synonym for several words...goofy, clueless, dumbass, idiot, moron, country, etc.

    My friends & I gave it to a goofy friend as a nickname in high school, & I've been using it ever since. I used it quite often when I worked at the prison for the horny moron inmates when they'd act up...even they'd ask me "what the hell is a Jethro?". LOL


    Both are a possibility here in Texas. lol


    I'm sorry you're having to deal with that mess, Athena. It is ridiculous that a woman just can't be herself without having to worry about getting stalked by some clueless creep.
     
    Last edited: Mar 2, 2012
  13. Alinoa

    Alinoa New Member

    This is what I'm talking about.

    I understand that dating can be and is confusing. And that yes, signals can be hard to read. Women vary. That thing about only showing interest after being pursued is case in point. I don't like to be pursued unless I like him or have a minimal interest in being pursued. It will never be that he tries 5 times and on the sixth time he's successful.

    The ones who take the smallest gesture and turn it into a huge love affair are hands down creepy. And Athena has a major point. I hate to be rude. If someone approaches me and I either don't respond or decline outright...then leave me the fuck alone. It will not go anywhere despite repeated attempts.
     
  14. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    :smt043:smt043:smt043

    Too funny Nyxie. :)
     
  15. satyr

    satyr New Member

    Oh these poor women with hopelessly obsessed men crawling all over them. :(
     
  16. Archman

    Archman Well-Known Member

    Just imaging........At one time,......You had the inside track to that beauty.....exclusively to yourself !..........
     
  17. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    C'est la vie.
     
  18. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    I wonder if you two know each other personally. I mean, though living in the same state, perhaps you both live in different cities or what have you. I wonder, have you both ever crossed paths?

     
  19. LibraPrincess

    LibraPrincess Well-Known Member

    Questo linguaggio è duro di imparare! Chiunque altro qui sanno italiano?

    Hehehe I'm trying to learn Italian. It's good to learn more than one language, ya know! :p
     
  20. Morning Star

    Morning Star Well-Known Member

    Damn skippy!

     

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